first day back from holiday

a combination of a two week holiday with family ... and a previous injury ... meant that i hadn't had any sexual activity for a couple of weeks ...

the day i got back home after a long flight, i got a few hours sleep ... and headed to the gym to relax ...

sometimes i can go over a week visiting the gym without any action happening in the steam room ... but thankfully this time i got lucky straight away !

when this happens, it really does make me feel happy that i live where i do !!

Out of action due to steam room damage

i was in the gym steam room recently ... and this guy was up for some fun ...

He wasn't that young, but he seemed over excited about getting it on ... and once he got his hands on my dick he couldn't stop ...

the trouble was that he wasn't using any sort of lube, and it started to get sore ... and despite me trying to get him to use some spit ... he just wasn't listening.

eventually i gave up, left the steam room ... and went to the showers to finish myself off !

later that day i realised that my dick was properly sore ... and discovered that it was damaged.

it took a couple of weeks to properly heal ... probably the longest time i haven't ejaculated since puberty !

saying goodbye properly to FWB

having messed around recently with a friend who is leaving London soon ... i was due to see him a few days ago to go to a concert ... but flakey fecker that he is, he didn't make it ... but suggested going for dinner after the concert finished ...

when he finally arrived ... we had a pleasant meal ... and whilst we were finishing off ... i took off my shoe, and used my foot to massage his groin ... quite discreetly !

he was supposed to have gone out clubbing with other friends after dinner, but tiredness and a hard on convinced him that he should come back to my place instead ...

apparently he came back to my place in May ... but i don't remember it very well ... i guess it wasn't great sex !  i think i will remember this one - but not necessarily for the right reasons ...

over dinner it came up in conversation that he had never been penetrated ... and that he even found fingers sore ... so once we got naked, and started getting down to it ... i started experimenting with his ass ...

watching his face carefully to make sure that it didn't become too painful - i gradually managed to get him to relax and enjoy having his ass played with ...

the trouble was that he started getting really into it, and i was probably putting a bit too much energy into it ... and since his ass was relaxed, i was more concentrating on his dick ... and i didn't realise that his ass was bleeding a bit ...

i stopped and cleaned him up with tissues ... and he didn't seem to be in any pain ... i just hope it wasn't too painful the next day.

we eventually shot our loads ... and fell asleep together.

he got a taxi home a few hours later, as he hadn't brought his contact lenses with him.

hopefully we will see each other again in the years to come ...   

upgraded STD clinic

my local STD clinic was a bit run down, and last time i was there getting a Hep B vaccination, they mentioned that they would be moving into a separate building (at that stage they were in part of my local hospital).

the other day I went back for what will hopefully be my final Hep B injection - although it will take another couple of months before i find out whether they worked this time ...

the new building is very pleasant - it feels more like a fancy office block than a clap clinic !  on the outside there is barely a mention of what it is !

thankfully the obnoxious receptionists weren't on either the main entrance reception or the floor which i visited (although i did see one of them on another floor as my lift opened to let out another person - so sadly he hasn't left).

there used to be a special time allocated to "men who have sex with men" - but this is no longer available - we seem to have moved down the pecking order !  to get a separate "service" - you now have to fall into one of the following categories:

Trans
Specialist sexual difficulty - although it's not clear what constitutes one
Learning disability
Adult entertainment worker
Viral hepatisis
Under 19 years old
Black or Minority Ethnic

as well as getting my Hep B injection, i also had a full STD testing - and it turns out that they now want you to do your own throat and anal swabs.  the nurse who took my blood in fact did my throat swab, whilst i had the pleasure of visiting the bathroom to do an anal swab (and piss in a bottle). doing my own anal swab felt odd !

anwyay, the good news is that despite losing my urine sample, they found it a couple of hours later ... and all of the test results are clear.

stuck in the middle with you

a good few months ago i was "lucky" enough to be in the steamroom with two guys who both had their hands on me ... although it did result in some pain !

the other day i was back in the same steamroom ... and was again between two guys ... and again they both had their hands on me ... and again it resulted in some pain !

on my left was a lovely asian guy, with a relatively short but extremely hard dick ... and whilst i played with his dick, he played with my ass ...

on my right was a nice enough white guy with a large dick ... and whilst i played with his dick, he played with mine ... and that's where the problem occurred ...

he just wasn't using enough spit / lube ... and was working away fairly vigorously ... and it just got a bit sore ... still is a bit !

eventually i got him to stop, and i worked on it myself ... and he seemed keen for me to shoot my load on him ... so standing in front of him, and leaning into him, i did.

the two guys didn't seem like they were about to cum ... and i was in danger of overheating ... so i left without seeing either of their cumshots :(

saying goodbye to FWB

the closest i've ever managed to having a Friend With Benefits, is the guy who I dated for a while about 18 months ago ... but whom I now just see occasionally ...

sadly his job in London is coming to an end ... and he sort of looked for a replacement here ... but he's decided to go back home to Asia ...

whilst he was too flaky ever to be a boyfriend ... and probably too flaky to even count as FWB ... but we had fun / enjoyed each other when we did manage to meet !

for probably our last meeting (i might just see him one last time next week) ... we arranged to go to one of the nice gyms in the chain that i'm a member of ... although this gym doesn't have a male only steam room ... there aren't usually many women around towards closing time ...

and so it was again this time ... so i took a chance, and in the far corner of the steam room - that hopefully couldn't be seen through the glass wall ... i started playing with him ... and before too long he was shooting his load ... and shortly afterwards, using his cum as lube ... i shot mine on him !

goodbye.  i will miss our occasional sessions.

bloke on a crutch

by the evening of the "report card" encounter, i was feeling horny again ... and thankfully other guys were too !

i started chatting to a guy who wanted to give a Blow Job ... his english was a bit hard to understand, but we sorted out where he was (not far away), and agreed that i would come over and deliver a load.

on my way, i mentioned that i needed a piss ... and he asked for that too !

when i arrived he was just wearing his boxers, and using a crutch !  he was better looking than his pics - both body and face ... which was a nice surprise !

after he took off his underwear and got into his bath, i complied with his request and emptied my bladder.  i started working up to emptying my balls ... like the report card guy, he also had a beautiful uncut cock, a real handful.  before too long he was shooting his load, and i had to play catch up this time!

he shot a nice big hot load ... so it didn't take me long to add mine to his.

before i arrived he said that he didn't want chat, just cum and go ... but afterwards we did chat whilst he showered to remove all the liquids from his hot body !

he lives fairly close - i'm surprised i hadn't seen him online before ... maybe we will manage a repeat encounter ...

report card

i had been chatting to a guy on Jackd for about a day ... and he was keen to meet up ... so the other morning we did just that ...

he was quite cute - a bit smaller than i was expecting ... and nice and friendly ...

we'd had some discussion beforehand about kissing - i'm keen on it, and prefer guys who are too ... but he didn't seem overly keen.  thankfully when we met, he was ok with kissing - even if i had to get him to slow down, to enjoy longer / slower kisses !

we knew we only had an hour before he had to head off ... so we got down to business fairly quickly ... he had a beautiful uncut dick - which always helps !

before we met, he suggested that he was looking to btm that day ... so after some preliminaries, i complied with his request !  he was a bit of a moaner - i suspect he watches a lot of professional porn !  but still, i prefer that than somebody who is dead silent.

i was trying to time our ejaculations so we both shot together ... and i thought he was close, so i started shooting ... but it turned out that he wasn't !  i couldn't keep penetrating him, so i had to use my fingers to stimulate his ass for another couple of minutes, until he shot his load.

he was able to stay for a bit afterwards, which was great ... and he seems like a nice guy - although fairly recently out of a relationship, so probably still a bit fragile.

a couple of hours later, he sent a message saying "Amazing", and that he really enjoyed it.  i couldn't stop myself showing it to a mate that i was having lunch with - who knows what i get up to.  my mate laughed, and said it was like getting a report card at school :)

steam room argument

i was in one of my regular gym steam rooms the other day ... there was an Arrogant guy - with a good body and a nice dick ... and a more Friendly guy - also with a nice body and a good dick ...

it looked like we might get it together ... but sadly a couple of guys came in wearing swimming togs - a clear sign that they were unlikely to be up for any action :(

i headed out of the steam room to take a shower and head off ... but shortly afterwards i saw the Arrogant guy in discussion with one of the Swimming Tog guys ...

i couldn't work out whether they knew each other, or whether the Swimming Tog guy was complaining to the Arrogant guy ... the conversation went back and forth for a couple of minutes ... and ended with the Arrogant guy telling the Swimming Tog guy to "fuck off".

it reminded me that one does need to be discreet in the steam room !

jointly and severally ejaculating

i went to one of my regular gyms the other day ... and after working out, headed to the male steam room ...

there were a few guys in there - one of them looked like he might be up for it ... another looked like a possible ... and a third was a definite No.

after a while, the definite No left ... and the likely lad opened his towel and started showing off his twitching hard on ... whilst the Possible ignored it all !

i reckoned that the Exposer must have prior experience of the Possible, so decided that it must be ok to join in ...

the only trouble was that the Exposer wasn't very interactive ... but hey, better than having a wank at home on my own !

very hot

all steam rooms are not equal ... some are just too hot ... and i'm not just talking about the blokes !

i was in my local gym the other day, and there was mostly just one guy in there, who was well up for it ... but the temperature was just so damn high that he kept having to go and and cool down.

he was the type of guy that if it wasn't for the darkness of the steam room, i probably wouldn't have interacted with ... but we were both horny ... and in the darkness we could use our imaginations to conjure up a better looking person !

eventually after a few cooling down breaks, we both shot our loads.

first day back

i had been away for 10 days dealing with a family death ... and first day back in London i headed to my gym ...

walking into the steam room there was one bloke sitting there ... a good start ...

and pretty much as soon as i sat down he indicated that he was up for fun - no point hanging around !

it's good to be back :)

stop inserting your fingers !

there's a guy that i've messed around with in the gym steam room before ... and the other day we were at it again ... although this time we also tried the sauna ...

i'd forgotten how much he likes to play with ass !

one time he even went and got some soap - the easier to insert his fingers into my ass !

this time he was at it again ... maybe part of the fun for him is for the guy to tell him to stop ...

whatever it is - we both climaxed.

stop biting me !

i contacted a guy on Grindr recently who said he was looking for "kissing and cuddling" - since i'm a fan of both activities !

he wasn't too far away ... and it took a while (he was a bit tight with his facepics) ... but we agreed for him to come over to my place.

i met him at the tube station, and he seemed to be a nice enough guy ...

it was a pleasant enough encounter ... one interesting aspect was that despite being Asian, he seemed to get sweatier than me !  i quite enjoy it when a guy gets a bit sweaty during sex - so it wasn't a problem.

the weird thing was that he thought it would be fun to get me to shoot a load, by pretending he was about to cum ... apparently he was going to come once we started up again ... but we never quite did !

he wanted to stay the night ... but i wanted a good night's sleep ... so i ended up walking him to the tube station - he just caught the last tube. 

sucking opportunity

i was going round to a friend's place for sunday lunch ... so i visited a different gym to my usual ones ... i had been before, so i knew it had a male steam room ... but i don't think i've ever managed to get much action.

after doing some weights, i went downstairs to the shower/steam area ... and there was an older guy in the steam room who looked like he was up for it, as well as a straight guy - in his shorts !

the straight guy left, and was replaced by a middle aged guy, who was clearly up for it as well.  i didn't really fancy either of them ... but i was feeling a bit horny ... so i stood up, with my dick not too far away from the younger of the two ...

he took the bait, and started sucking.  sadly he didn't have enough time to get me off - but it was still fairly pleasurable.