in front of the picky guy

in the gym chain that I use there's about four or five gyms which have reliably good steam rooms ... so you get to recognise the regulars!

there's one particular guy who isn't particularly young or hot, but is only interested in younger guys - and spends hours in the steam waiting for his type of guy

but for those of us with broader tastes, we have to just ignore the picky guy and get on with business!

on this occasion I was enjoying myself with a guy ... an expressed my appreciation in the usual way ... but sadly the other guy didn't

it was only later on when I saw the other guy in the changing room that I realised he was considerably older ... so maybe it takes him longer to build up to an eruption!

 

wham bam

whilst I clearly enjoy using gym steam rooms ... sometimes it can be a frustrating business ... there's just so many ways for things not to work out - straight guys / shy guys / guys who aren't into you / staff interruptions ... the list is long! 

and this can result in it taking a long time for the stars to align ... and for fun to happen ...

but sometimes the stars align immediately on entering a steam room ... and you've shot your load within minutes ... and are on your way to your next appointment!

 

Owe you one !

whilst in porn movies the actors often shoot their loads at roughly the same time - or just after each other for dramatic effect ... in real life there's usually a bigger gap between ejaculations!

and this can be a bit of a problem in the steam room when you get interrupted / fear an interruption ...

but sometimes a guy who shoots his load is just selfish and leaves immediately ... or pretends that he's worried about being interrupted and leaves almost immediately!

another type of guy to try and avoid in future!!

  

Just the two of us

Most of the gyms where I regularly have encounters are in central London ... occasionally the ones near the centre can be good ... but the ones further out are not usually happy hunting grounds ...

There seem to be less gay guys visiting the gyms the further out you go ... and even the men that are clearly interested seem more inhibited or more risk averse about getting caught!

But there is one in "zone 3" that has both a steam room and a sauna in the men's changing room ... and occasionally it works

Recently I had finished my workout and entered the steam room naked ... and waited for somebody to arrive!

Before long a guy wearing towel entered and sat down the far end ... but then kept looking over at me ... and looking over at me !

Before long I was hard ... and he had scooted down to my end ... and was digitally encouraging me ...

Just as I was finishing shooting ... another bloke arrived ... and my encounter buddy greeted him and covered up!

So I never got to see if he shot whilst manipulating me

 

Five in a row

On of my regular gym steam rooms was closed for "inappropriate behaviour" for a month ... but thankfully has opened again ...

A few recent visits were unsuccesful for various reasons ...

But the other day I finally hit paydirt !

It ended up with five of us in a row .. three to my right and one guy on my left ...

When we were all obviously up for it ... I stimulated the nipples of the guy on my left ... but other than that there was no physical contact between the five of us ... which is slightly weird and very unusual !

I was the first to shoot ... followed by the guy on my left ... but the others were silent ... so I'm not sure if they didn't shoot or did so quietly ...

Anyway, good to see this steam room back in action ... even if it wasn't the most exciting encounter ever !

 

The risk with closeted guys

I've written before about the types of guys which (in my experience) often result in sub standard encounters ... one of the attributes I mentioned was "self hating guys"

I suspect that I encountered one of those in the gym steam room recently ...

It was getting close to closing time ... and I was alone in the steam ... until he came in ... and sat fairly close to me ...

Within a minute we were both playing with ourselves ... and he was staring intently at my dick ...

After another minute I reached over and started playing with his nipple ... and he didn't flinch away ...

And within another minute he was shooting a decent sized load !

I was clearly getting close ... but he stood up to leave ... so I asked him to wait ... but he didn't - and was out of there before I had a chance to complete !

Whilst I didn't finish myself off ... it's never as great when the other guy does a runner ...

I did get serious "closet" vibes from him 

I wonder if I'll see him again in the same gym ...

 

Don't hit me

Another trip to the gym with the open showers ...

First attempt at having some fun in the showers didn't work out ... a couple of guys who were clearly interested in having some fun ... but didn't seem to be into having fun with me!

So off to the steam room ... where there was a guy who seemed up for it ... but another one who wasn't...

Back to the showers ... and the guy who was up for it was trying to get it on with a seriously fit guy ... who seemd a bit drunk ... but it wasn't happening ...

After the seriously fit guy left ... the guy from the steam was more interested in me ... so we sort of got it together ...

But he didn't seem to want my cum to touch him !

Not the most exciting encounter ... but better than wanking alone ...

 

Occupational Hazard

Sometimes when I'm cycling home after a few drinks with friends ... I like to stop at a regular cruising ground and see what's happening ...

Usually I don't have the patience to stick around ... but the other day ... despite there not being many guys around ... there were just enough to keep me interested

And after a short while I bumped into a pair of asian guys ... who may or may not have been a couple!

After a certain amount of play ... they wandered off ... but I bumped into them again ... and they seemed interested in the three of us moving away from the main area

Part of why I enjoy cruising grounds is because I enjoy being watched ... but obviously different people go there for different reasons!

The older guy had a beautiful dick ... whilst the younger guy had a beautiful body and a lovely smile, but didn't seem interested in getting off - maybe he was high ...

The younger guy gave pretty good head ... to both of us ... but wouldn't keep going for long enough to get me off !  The younger guy was a great kisser - and the older guy also enjoy kissing him.

The younger guy encouraged me to suck off the older guy with the beautiful dick - which I was happy to do ... and I got him off ... and they both waited for me to finish myself off too!

Sadly whilst moving about in the dark I walked into a low hanging branch and gave myself a nasty cut ... but them's the risks!!

 

Disappointing head

I've had some amazing blow jobs over the years ... you know the type where your legs go to jelly with the intensity of the experience ...

But sadly not all blow jobs can be breathtaking ... some are mediocre ... and some are just downright disappointing !

Thus it was the other day that I had a BJ *not* to remember ...

The many ways he went wrong:

1. Lack of suction - that is often a complaint that I have ... and something that a previous boyfriend taught me as being an essential ingredient in a good BJ

2. Lack of interest - you really have to show that you're into the whole encounter ... and if you're not, just pretend you are!

3. Sucker not shooting - maybe it's part of point 2 - and maybe it's my personal bias ... but I really enjoy seeing a guy sucking me getting off on the whole experience ... preferably shooting a load before me ... but this sucker didn't even get his dick out

4. Not liking bodily fluids - if you're sucking a guy off, you're going to get wet ... and holding up a towel so that not a drop of cum touches you is off putting

Despite all of this I did manage to shoot a reasonable volume ... but that was mostly because I was replaying a scene from my gym's open showers an hour beforehand!

The sub standard sucker said he hoped we would meet again ... but I don't think that's likely

 

Shower time

As I mentioned before, the closing of my most reliable gym steam room - due to blatant "inappropriate" behaviour - meant that I needed to look elsewhere ...

Another gym nearby also has a male only steam room - but it's fairly small and I personally don't find it as realiably successful !

On this occasion I got a weird vibe in the steam room ... but there was a beautiful asian guy that I recognised from my usual steam room ... and he seemed particularly friendly ...

After a couple of interrruptions I decided to call it a day and head to the showers ... and made sure that he saw I was leaving ... and before long he followed me ...

Whilst he was quite shy in the steam room, he seemed happy for me to join him in his shower cubicle !

It was strange to finally see him fully naked after so long admiring him ... and it didn't take long before I had shot a load on him ... and it didn't take him long to follow up with his own load

Hopefully now that we've broken the seal ... we might get to play again ...

On my own ...

One of my regular steam rooms was out of action for the month of July - as a result of too much blatant "inappropriate" behaviour - so I was forced to look elsewhere ...

Another of my preferred gyms has open showers ... and I do enjoy watching and being watched ...

It's funny seeing plenty of guys from the closed steam room gym also migrating to the open shower gym !

On this occasion I got to see a cute black guy play that I've never seen in action in the regular steam room ... happily play with himself in the open showers ...

Sometimes you can end up with a guy beside you in the open showers and get each other off ...

This time we were all playing with ourselves and not touching each other ...

But it's still more fun to shoot in front of others that doing it alone !

 

Happy Pride

I visited one of my regular gyms on London Pride day ... which I feared might be empty ...

But thankfully there were a couple of guys in the steam room that were up for it ...

A latino guy wearing a prominent cross necklace ... and a black guy ...

They were both up for some fun ... and the latino guy seemed quite passive !

He must have been there for quite a while, because before long he needed to take a break ...

The black guy didn't seem to want much physical interaction ... but when I was getting close to shooting he suddenly seemed more interested !

But I couldn't work out what sort of interaction he wanted ... maybe he didn't know himself !

 

Not the most exciting of encounters, but a fairly pleasant end to Pride Month

 

One that didn't work

Most of my blog posts are about enjoyable events ... I don't usually write about failed events ... but they happen a lot !

What also sometimes happen are events which do actually culminate ... but aren't very enjoyable!

This guy lived nearby and was keen to meet ...

From his photos he was clearly a bit overweight ... but when I arrived at his place it was clear that he was seriously overweight ...

And it also turned out that he was interested / able to shoot a load himself ... and whilst I have been accused of being too focused on ejcaulations ... I thinnk most encounters are improved by them!

Whilst he seemed to vaguely enjoy the encounter ... and the fact that he contacted me again afterwards suggests he did ...

Sadly, It just didn't work for me ... despite my own eruption

You win some, you don't win some

 

changing room quickie

Back in the gym with the small male steam room ...

Making eye contact with a guy in the changing room is always a good sign ...

And before long he was sucking me ... but sadly he wasn't very good at it !

I suggested that we go to the changing room toilets for more privacy ...

But he was seriously horny ... and started shooting ... quite a decent amount

I really love seeing a decent load ... and that pushed me over the edge ... and I added my fluids to his!

 

two in the steam

Back in the gym steam room that's laid out as one long bench ...

Whilst I don't often find overweight guys attractive ... there's a regular who is such a nice guy ... I quite enjoy messing around with him ...

It was just the two of us in the steam ... and I ended up standing in front of him ...

And after he started playing with my balls ... it didn't take me long to shoot a load ...

And after that ... it didn't take him long to also shoot a load !