Twice

Sometimes it's a bit unclear whether you're meeting for sex ... or for a date ... or pretending it's a date when you both really know it's just sex ...

This guy was a little bit like that ... probably something between pretending it's a date and not bothering to pretend ... since we agreed to meet at my nearest train station and come back to my place ...

He looked quite different to his photos ... but he was still good looking ... if a bit more camp than i usually go for ...

When we got to my bedroom he was a bit awkward - he kept getting his hands in the way, and kept trying to get hold of my bits in a not very comfortable way !

But we had a reasonably good time - which included him cumming twice, and me coming once ... possibly the first time that i've ever been out cummed !!

He was clearly looking for a relationship, and he seemed rather sad that he wasn't already in one ...

But i'm afraid that i wasn't the guy for him.


Postcript - i saw him a couple of months later with a slightly older version of me ... that was freaky !

Another time

It's always good to see a guy your recognise from previous steam room fun in the changing room ... it gives me hope that today we will have more fun ...

It's particularly good when the guy happens to be a beautiful asian guy from a previous enounter ...

And so it came to pass that we emptied our balls together again !

 

Wet

Considering how I used to avoid going to the gym because I couldn't bear the thought of having to be naked in public ... it's slightly strange just how much i enjoy using the open showers in one of my local gyms ...

There's something great about playing with a guy with all that space ... and maybe the risk of getting caught adds to the excitement ...

On this occasion i shot my load all over the other guy ... which he seemed to enjoy ... as it produced a lovely smile on his face !

 

Older

I've written before about how steam rooms can allow you to use your imagination into thinking that the guy you're engaging with is better looking / younger than he actually is ...

The steam room i was in recently wasn't that steamy ... so it didn't allow me to fool myself that this guy was younger than he was ...

But he seemed really keen ... and he looked ok ... and he made me cum !

  

Penetration

After a few recent highly enjoyable sessions with a local guy ... including one outside ...I was keen to get inside this lovely guy !

So many of my encounters don't include penetration ... but sometimes it's fun - even though it requires extra preparation ...

Before coming over, i got him to tell me on Grindr more of what turns him on ... and he mentioned that being held tightly during sex was one thing ...

So I made sure that whilst i was inside him, i also held him ... and he moaned with delight as that happened - not sure which he enjoyed more !

It was a good session ... but as always he headed off pretty quickly afterwards ...

 

Outside

After a couple of very enjoyable sessions with a local guy who enjoys being properly subby ...

I persuaded him that he should suck me off in our local park !

We were both online as it was approaching dusk ... so we agreed to meet at the park entrance at just the right time for the park to still be open, but to be discreet enough ...

Despite it being pretty cold, he was up for it ...

And from the amount we both shot, we seemed to both enjoy it !

I've started so i'll ...

There's a famous lie from a tv quiz, when the buzzer goes for the end of the 60 seconds ... "i've started (the question) so i'll finish" ...

Sadly this doesn't always apply in the steam room ...

I was enjoying myself recently with a guy who didn't seem very engaged ...

And he just suddenly stopped ... wrapped his towel around him ... and left !

 

Yellow

A guy a few miles away was keen for me to visit him ... so i made the trip ... only for him to go silent !

He later claimed that he'd fallen asleep ... and he keeps asking me to return ... but i'm not making a special trip to see him again !

Whilst i was in the area without any dick to play with ... i got on the apps looking for fresh meat ...

Before too long i was chatting with a guy who wanted to meet up for some yellow action ...

Whilst I'm not particularly keen on piss, i'm quite comfortable with providing it for other guys if it gets them off ...

And after some preliminaries at his place ... i suggested moving to the bathroom - so that cleaning up afterwards would be less hassle ...

But he really wanted me to do it in the hallway - and had a towel down ready to collect it ...

So he lay down on the towel in his own hallway and i provided him with the contents of my bladder !

 

Shower

After final meeting a guy who had been in contact for a couple of years ... we messaged again recently ...

He said that he'd just finished work and needed a shower ... so i persuaded him to come to mine and have it with me ... since i love showering with a guy ...

He really does have a strange body shape ... slight man boobs ... which is unusual in a young guy ...

The encounter was reasonably fun, but nothing stand out !

 

No second coming

I recently had a late night hook up with a ridiculously tall guy ...

He was quite young, and a bit odd ... and he managed to forget his jacket when he left ...

I messaged him afterwards but he didn't reply ... so i guess he's not that worried about missing it ... or the screwdriver i noticed in the pocket !

The session itself was ok, if a bit drunken ...

But a few weeks later he messaged me again and was keen to come back ...

This time the session was even weirder ... and he didn't in fact cum ... but at least i did ... and at least he took his jacket !

He messaged me again a few days later, but i didn't reply ... i think i need a bit of a break from him !

 

Sub

After a recent enounter with a guy who turned out to be very subby ...

He was back again for more !

He seems to only be online in the mornings ... and he doesn't hang around afterward for long ...

But he is seriously good at sucking ... and he has a beautiful body and dick ... and it's fun watching a guy get so seriously turned on by being face fucked ...

So he can come again !

 

Waiting

There was a hot looking guy in the gym steam room recently ... but it wasn't clear if he was up for action ...

He kept looking around at other guys - which is usually a clear sign that a guy is interested ...

But then when other guys were touching themselves and readying for action - this hot guy wouldn't take part !

After a while a new arrival ended up beside him, with his dick out ... which turned out to be rather large ...

That was enough to get the reluctant hot guy to produce his own !

Not sure i've ever seen a guy in the steam who will only engage when he has a big dick to look at !!

 

Eager

Gym steam rooms encompass a range of guys ... from the painfully shy, to the outrageous guys who wank in front of straight guys and risk getting the place shut down !

On this occasion there was a shy black guy sitting on the same side as me ... and an eager young guy who clearly had no inhibitions ...

After a short time, the eager young guy came and sat between the other guy and myself - he clearly wanted to be at the centre of the action !

I've never seen quite such a proactive guy in the steam before !!

 

Outdoor

Back in the days when I was closeted ... the very occasional encounter that I had usually involved me being drunk, and some sort of outdoor fumbling ...

These days I much prefer a more relaxed indoor encounter ... but occasionally outdoor can be fun ...

I noticed a guy on Squirt posting about meeting up at a local park ... and his username was similar to a guy that i'd met a few times years ago ... so part of my reason for going was in the hope that it was the lovely little guy !

I arrived on my bicycle ... and worked out who the guy was fairly quickly ... sadly it wasn't the lovely guy from years ago ...

But this guy seemed ok, and keen to suck me ... and was even pretty good at it ...

He did smell a bit of nicotine, which wasn't ideal ... but still reasonably enjoyable !

 

Beautiful

I had a really good steam room encounter at my most reliable gym recently ...

It was just me and a beautiful asian guy ... and he shot a nice big load ...

Occasionally a steam room encounter includes a bit of snogging ... but often you're too busy keeping an eye on the door for unwanted arrivals !

This experience didn't include any tongue ...

But as I was leaving, i couldn't help but give him a quick kiss on my way out - he was so cute !

I think he was a bit surprised !!

 

Probably Not Thrush - postscript

Looking back at old blog posts, I realised that I'd never given a final update of my "Probably not Thrush" series from April last year !

If you haven't already read them ... I "live" blogged about my predicament:

Day One
Day Two
Day Three
Day Four
Day Five
Day Five and a Half
Day Six
Day Nine
Day Thirteen

Some of you were kind enough to comment on my posts with suggestions - so I thought it was only fair to tell you what the outcome was ...

At the end of the series, the clap clinic doctors thought it was probably an allergic reaction to medications that I had taken ... and told me to go to my GP to get a referral to a local allergy clinic ...

I duly went to my GP, and after going into the details of what happened she submitted the referral ...

But the allergy clinic wrote back to say that there is no known incidence of either anti histamine or Ibuprofen causing an allergic reaction ... and they rejected my referral !

So I guess I'm left with the possibility that I reacted to a different washing soap powder ... which I think I might have done about 15 years ago.  I'm still not sure what to do if it happens again !

 

Too late ?

I can't quite remember whether this guy had mentioned in our pre-meet message exchanges just how much of a sub he was ...

But when i opened the door, he was already in sub-mode ... meekishly asking "am i too late" ?

I seemed to switch into dom mode very naturally !

He really wanted to suck ... and we had a fun little session

He lives nearby, so maybe there will be more to come ...

Mismatch

I found myself in my family home alone ... and i don't think i'd ever brought a guy back ... so was keen for a new experience !

There was an Israeli guy visiting the area, who was keen for some fun before he drove to his next destination ... so after meeting at a nearby petrol station ... i brought him back ...

He was seriously hot, and i had to repeatedly stop touching myself because he turned me on so much ...

The only downside was that i wasn't able to play with his ass, as he hadn't cleaned himself ... but he didn't seem embarassed when i had to go and wash my hand in the middle of proceedings !

Sometimes i find that when i'm really turned on, i don't manage to time my climax correctly ... and this was one of these occasions where my cumshot didn't fully reflect just how exciting the encounter was

 

Three

Another of my regular gyms has a mixed steam room ... but often there's no women around, and with a good view of the stairs leading up to it, you've time to extract yourself from any compromising situations ...

I was there recently with a guy that i'd engaged with before ... this time he seemed keen to have his ass played with ... and i managed to insert three digits !

After we exchanged acknowledgements on Grindr !!

  

Repeat steam

Sometimes you get to recognise the same guys in the steam room

There's one guy i saw again in my most reliable steam room these days ... cute young asian guy with an adorable smile ...

This time there was also a hot black guy there ...

I couldn't stay long, but enough time to shoot and go !

  

first time with a pilot ?

One of the hotels near where I live often accommodates airline crew staying over ... and I've had quite a few encounters over the years with cabin crew ...

After chatting online to this guy who was staying in the same hotel, i guessed that he worked for an airline ...

We arranged that i would enter his darkened room, and he would suck me off ... and it developed into quite a good little dom/sub session ...

Afterwards we were chatting and it turned out that he wasn't cabin crew, he actually worked as a pilot ... which i think might be the first time i'd hooked up with one.

Some guys collect countries ... maybe i should collect professions ... or just different airlines ?!

Squirt interruption

Squirt leads you to some weird an wonderful places ... including a hotel toilet which had recently become a particularly busy spot ...

A very cute looking guy had posted that he was going, and since i was passing by anyway, i thought i'd drop in and check him out ...

when i arrived he was there with another guy at the urinals, playing with each other ... and they seemed happy for me to join in ...

the cute guy wouldn't let me touch his dick ... which seemed odd ...

i did wonder if he might have been high - he was too rough playing with my equipment ...

sadly he didn't want to suck me ... and then suddenly somebody walked in and blatantly interrupted us !

i'm usually fairly careful ... but this cute guy had lowered my natural caution, and we were properly busted.  thankfully the straight guy just laughed.  and i quickly left.

 

Parking

When I'm in a new area, I often have a look in Squirt to see what interesting venues are nearby

I was recently in a rural area that listed a beauty spot parking lot as being a potential encounter zone ...

It turned out that there were two viewing sites ... with one of them really too busy with non-Squirters for action to take place

When I visited there was an older guy who was clearly up for some action - but there was no way that I was taking the risk in such a busy area

I drove off, and happened upon the second viewing site, which I'd never noticed before ... and it seems few others do, as it was deserted ... until the same older guy showed up ...

I wouldn't normally have let anything happen, but it had a been a while ... and i was horny ...

  

No Talking

a few years ago i wrote about steam room etiquette

one thing i didn't mention was talking ...

most guys who are up for fun don't do it before the start of play, so i guess i'd never really thought about it

but recently a guy was definitely up for it asked me "do you come here often" ... which apart from being a really cheesy line, also helped ot kill the mood.  maybe the mood would have been killed anyway, but this really was the proverbial nail in the coffin !

moral of the story - don't talk before cumming (in the steam)