see you again

i had chatted to this guy a few times on Grindr over the years ... he lived nearby ... and seemed interested in meeting ... but never actually did ...

the other day he messaged me, and was keen - mentioning that his phone battery was very low.  that probably forced him to stop wasting time, as he arrived over at my place very quickly !

he had said that he wanted to suck ... and despite being fairly drunk ... he proved to be an excellent oral pleaser !

he was struggling to get hard - and apologised saying he was drunk ... but i wonder if there's more to it than just alcohol ...

eventually i shot my load on him ... and he must have cum too, considering how much post ejaculatory twitches he had ... but there was precious little of his cum to be seen !

after we had both cleaned up and he was leaving, he said "see you again" ... which is an unusual thing to say !  despite him being a good sucker, i'm not sure i will ask him back ...

 

alpha male

as i mentioned recently, i've changed gym chain after years of using one with a good number of cruisy male only steam rooms ...

as well as a couple of male of steam rooms, the chain has a couple of mixed ones where male only action takes place !

i tried it recently after a workout, and it was empty ... but before long a guy arrived wearing speedos

he sat close enough to be a potential player ... and after i adjusted myself a couple of times, he showed definite interest ...

before long i was standing over him with my lad in my hand (so to speak) ... which seemed to surprise him ... and he suggested that i was a real alpha male !  not something i often get called - but i guess everything is relative !!

he then asked me if i was married ... and if i was straight !  which seems odd things to ask before messing around with a guy in a gym steam room ...

before long i had shot my load on him ... but he didn't seem to interested in shooting his own load ... as i suspect he was married !

 

inappropriate behaviour

as i mentioned the other day - i've recently changed gym chain ...

i tried out another of their gyms with a male only steam room

and on entering there is a sign that tells users to press the emergency button if they notice any "inappropriate behaviour" ... which was a hopeful indication that there might be some action !

the steam room is tiny - about four guys can sit on the bench - quite close together ... and there's space for another couple of guys to stand

which could be good ... apart from some of the customers are clearly gay, clearly up for it ... but either overly picky or just interested in prick teasing !

i've been there twice and experienced the same situation ... it's so frustrating to leave with full balls !!

 

nervous neighbour

i chatted to a nearby guy on Grindr, and he seemed keen ... so i gave him my address ... which is a bit confusing, because there are two separate buildings with the same name, just different numbers !

after a bit of confusion he got to my front door ... and looked worried ... as he said he lived in the same building !

he came up to my apartment, but seemed really nervous, and looked like he might leave ... and said "but we're neighbours" ... so i tried my best to calm him down ... and eventually he seemed to relax !

he was quite overweight, but he carried it reasonably well ... the only downside was that he produced quite a bit of sweat at times - but not all the time ...

he said early on (when he was nervous) that he didn't want to be fucked ... but later on he seemed keen for me to play with his ass !

he had mentioned on Grindr that he hadn't cum for a couple of weeks - which seemed odd ... but it seemed like he really struggled to get himself over the edge

eventually he did

not sure if he or i will be up for meeting again ... but it will be fun to bump into each other !

 

shhhhh ...

as i mentioned in a post last week ... i've recently changed gym chain ... to one which GayBanker used to frequent many years ago !

this chain doesn't have so many male only steam rooms ... and even the ones it does have aren't so active as my previous chain ...

but i did manage some minor action recently ...

the other guy didn't interact very much, and was seriously worried about getting caught - even though the glass door isn't that transparent ...

and when i shot my load i groaned in appreciation ... he got really worried, and told me to sush !

 

one date

i'd chatted to this guy for a couple of week on Scruff ... and after a bit, i figured out that he wanted a proper date before we did anything more intimate ...

so we met up for a couple of drinks - and he seemed like a reasonably interesting guy

physically he was smaller than i expected - but he was definitely attractive

he appeared keen to meet another time at my place (he couldn't host) for some naked activities

the trouble was that he didn't seem prepared / able to find time to actually meet

and then when it seemed like we finally might make it happen - he wanted more details about what i wanted to do when we met !

i couldn't work out if he just wasn't that interested in me ... or maybe he doesn't often actually get naked with guys and was nervous ... or maybe he was a bit too self centred to find time for anything beyond his own interests

eventually i told him that we just needed to accept that it wasn't going to happen

he seemed shocked that i was pulling the plug.  but i really can't be bothered with guys who don't get on with things !

 

final time with the beautiful guy

after a couple of previous encounters with a stunning looking guy ... i'd had a couple of instances where things hadn't worked out ... so i didn't think he was interested ...

but we ended up beside each other again ... and it was getting towards closing time ... and he was clearly up for it ...

a canadian guy that i chat to in the gym (and i know is gay) entered the steam ... and it was a bit weird - almost like wanking off in front of a friend ... especially as the canadian guy wasn't showing off his (large) dick on this occasion ...

but the stunning guy beside me didn't seem to mind ... as i played with his nipples and dick and ass !

the stunning guy wanted me to shoot on him ... so i did ... whilst the canadian guy watched

but sadly the stunning guy had been in the steam too long - so didn't produce a cumshot of his own


this turned out to be my last steam room encounter at this gym ... as i ended my membership at this chain soon afterwards.  hopefully my new gym chain will also provide some new opportunities ...

overly keen sucker

i should be able to tell by now that when a guy is really, really keen ... it's probably not going to end well ...

this guy wanted to come over and suck me off ... so i decided i would, despite him not being the most attractive ever ...

when he arrived he also turned out to be more overweight that his photos suggested ... but i still didn't say know, and we went up to my flat ...

he was a bit rough with my nipples and my dick ... and i told him more than once that i wasn't into it

i'm not sure if he was just too keen and over excited, or he was just selfish as that's what he wanted to do

whatever the reason - he won't get a second invite !

 

surprise me

i'd been chatting to this guy on "romeo" for a while, but we hadn't managed to hook up ...

but late one evening, we agreed that i would visit him ...

the trouble was that he turned out to be significantly heavier than his photos ... and he somehow looked more feminine too - not sure how that happened

he was really, really keen to suck me off ... the trouble was that he wasn't particularly good at it !

i tried to encourage him to put more suction into it - but he didn't seem to get it

he wanted me to cum in his mouth ... and told me not to give him any warning ...

eventually i did - which was quite fun, as most guys want to know in advance

unfortunately he didn't shoot his load - apparently he'd wanked off a couple of times previously that day

sadly i won't be back !

  

Pushed away

i wrote ages ago about the comedy of guys wanting to sit beside the big dicked guy in the steam room ...

little did i know that i would embarass myself with similar behaviour !

it was getting close to closing time at the gym - so we needed to finish things off in the steam ...

the straight guys had just departed - so there was rush to make things happen ...

the beautiful guy that i'd messed around with twice before was the centre of the action ... an overweight guy was on his knees sucking him ... and and not very attractive guy was sitting beside him ...

since i knew the beautiful guy liked to have his nipples played with - i stood in front of the seated guy, and leant over to touch the beautiful guy ...

the trouble was that the seated guy didn't like me making a move on his man ... to be fair my legs were making contact with him ... so i can see why he might take offence ...

and the seated guy pushed me away ... not just once, but repeatedly !


i know what i did was out of line - i will definitely endeavour to behave better in the future.

 

Sleep apnea guy

after not hosting a guy at my place in months ... two followed in quick succession ... followed by a third ...

we got down to business pretty quickly after he arrived ... and he turned out to be a good kisser - which is always a great way to start ...

not for the first time - he seemed to want to Bare Back ... without ever having discussed it in advance ... but it's not something i do ... so i avoided that !

it wasn't long before we'd both shot our loads ...

and thankfully he was able to stay for some post coital cuddle time ...

he'd mentioned that he had only been in the country for a few days on holiday ... and i guess combination of sex and time difference was what caused him to fall asleep in my arms after just a few minutes !

it was nice to hold this beautifully smooth malaysian guy as he slept ... but the trouble was that he suffered from sleep apnea - so i had to shake him every now and again to get him to breathe !

after a bit of a snooze he woke up, and headed off ...

nice guy

 

older guy

steam room encounters range from fantastic to fairly rubbish / odd ... this one definitely fell into the latter category ...

it was one of my regular gym steam rooms ... and it was just this one guy (who was a bit older than i normally go for) and myself ...

i was feeling horny, so decided that i would go for it ... and before long i'd shot my load on him ...

he almost seemed too eager ... and also rather odd ... but he didn't shoot ...


i guess you win some, and you (half) lose some !

another no pics visitor

these days i never meet guys without seeing their facepics ... and of course i have facepics to swap ... but i don't have dickpics ... and some guys require images of my crown jewels in advance - so i miss out on those potential encounters !

but i recently met a guy who didn't seem that bothered about seeing my face in advance - which was unusual ... and within a week i'd met another guy who didn't even ask for my facepics ...

he was a nice enough guy ... but he could have been more freshly washed ... and he was relatively hairy - which is a bad combination !
 
after messing around for a while, i started penetrating him ... and i accept that if you're going to mess with a guy's ass, shit is an occupational hazard ... but i don't think i've ever end up with brown on my own stomach !

it wasn't particularly sexy, so i decided to move things along ... and i wanked him off ... and quickly follow up with a load of my own ... which accidentally hit his face ... which he didn't seem to worry too much about

he stayed for a good while afterwards - letting me hold him, which i alway enjoy.  but he didn't speak a huge amount himself ...

it seemed like he really was bi (not just trying to convince himself) - and that most of his previous experience was with women.  like the previous guy, he was a lot more mature than you'd expect for somebody in his early twenties.  i got the impression that one of his parents might have died when he was young (but i could have over interpreted) - but he was obviously close to his brother, which was good.

he seemed somewhat unhappy with himself - maybe he really was only trying to be straight ... who knows.

suspect he's the sort of guy who will delete the app ... and download it again in a few months !

 

button

whilst i'm still currently sidelined due to a crotch rash ... here's a gym encounter from beforehand ...


i'd had dealings with this guy previously ... on that occasion he shot, but i didn't

this time, we were again in showers opposite each other ... and he soon began to grow in size ...

before long we were back in the steam again ...

and this time i shot my load on him ... and he followed soon afterwards with a load of his own

he really is older and more overweight than i normally go for ... but i can't resist his beautifuly smooth black skin

 

This is going to be good

since i'm currently out of action due to a medical issue that's Probably not Thrush ... this event happend before i was sidelined ...


i had chatted months and months ago to a guy on Squirt ... but he didn't have any facepics ... so i didn't meet him ...

but he contacted me again recently - and this time he did have photos of his face ... and whilst they weren't the best pics ever - i thought he was worth meeting ...

so he hopped in an Uber and made his way over to my place - since he wasn't able to host ...

and i never quite got around to sending him my photos - i'm not even sure if i have ever uploaded any to Squirt - since it's not a site i really use to meet guys

as usual i went down to the front door of my building to meet him - to make it easier to say no ... but there was no need to say no, as he was better looking than his photos !

as we entered my flat he said "this is going to be good" - with just a bit of excitement in his voice ... which seemed like an odd thing to say

we got down to business straight away ... and he turned out to be pretty good

afterwards i asked him what age he was ... and he claimed to be 20 years old ... but he seemed way more mature than that ... and too good at sex for somebody that young !

he didn't hang around for long - as he was flying out that evening

after a couple of less than excellent experiences, i now try to limit myself to guys above 25 years old ... but i might make an exception (again) for this guy if he asks !