foot fetish

i like feet - and would almost consider myself a foot fan - i always make guys take off their socks when having sex ...

but i recently had a couple of incidents which made me realise that i'm a complete amateur !

they both happened in the showers at the gym

sometimes when there are too many straight guys in the steam room, the best you can do is get shower cubicles beside each other, and at least enjoy the sight of each other !

the other day a guy put his foot under the divider and into my shower cubicle ... so we were able to connect feet - shame we couldn't connect anything else !

then a couple of days later - the guy in the neighbouring shower cubicle put his foot to the edge in initiate contact ... and next thing i know, he's reaching down to touch my foot !

it's funny how things happen in convoys

is it ok to hook up in the showers ?

there's over 60 posts on this blog about gym / steam room encounters ... so i clearly don't have a problem with guys hooking up in gyms ...

but one aspect that i'm not so comfortable with is guys who exit the steam room, go to the showers, put up towels to stop people seeing in ... and get it on ...

if i see a shower (usually at the far end of the shower room) with towels up, it's pretty obvious that there are two guys in there !

it's probably only a matter of time before staff notice / straight gym goers complain ... there's a general clampdown ... and then our steam room fun gets stopped too.

i feel it's selfish to use the showers so obvioulsy for sex.

but then the other day, there were too many people in the steam room ... and a guy in the shower cubicle opposite me got down on his knees in his cubicle, and motioned for me to join him ... which i did !

at least we didn't use any towels, and the smoked glass of the shower meant that he couldn't be seen.

i still feel like a hypocrite ! 

Hep-B success

i wrote a while ago that my previous set of Hepatitis B injections didn't work ... and i wasn't overly confident that my most recent set would give me immunity either ...

having been for a blood test recently, i was bracing myself for a failed test result, and even more injections ...

but the other day i received a text message that said "You are immune to Hepatitis B" - which is good news !

next time i'm at the clinic, i need to ask them how strong the immunity is - apparently there's a massive range it could be ...

why don't guys like cum ?

i've often wondered about this ... but an incident the other day really brought it to a head, so to speak !

before i'd even got to the steam room, i noticed a nice guy in the changing room checking me out ...

and a few minutes later we found ourselves alone in the steam room ...

one thing lead to another ... and before long he was shooting his own load - and wiping it off his body with his towel straight away ...

i was standing in front of him and as i got closer to coming, he held up his towel to stop my cum touching his body !

why don't guys like cum (even their own) - it's an amazing substance ?

a strange date

the other day a guy contacted me on Scruff ... but i forgot to reply ... and it was only the next day on the way to the gym that i messaged him back.

we exchanged a few messages, and it turned out that we were both free later on that evening, so we decided to meet up ... and he suggested going for a drink !

it had been a few months since i was on a proper date, and i wasn't really dressed for meeting a guy (and i needed a haircut), but why not ...

i waited outside the tube station, and as guys who i didn't find attractive walked towards me, i kept thinking "i hope this isn't him" ... not helped by Scruff only allowing you to see the most recent chats, so i couldn't look at the facepic that he'd previously sent !

he arrived a few minutes late, and he looked like a nice enough guy ... so we headed off to find a bar.  we had a pint in the bar, and the conversation was good ... so when they started closing the bar, i asked him if he wanted to come back to mine for a drink ...

he agreed, but said that "nothing would happen" ... and since i wasn't massively attracted to him, it didn't worry me too much.

after quite a few drinks at my place and some really interesting conversation (nothing more than an odd kiss) ... he decided to stay the night ... wearing his underwear !

during the night there was some fumbling ... but no ejactulations.

the next morning i walked him to the tube station.

interesting guy, but i doubt i will ever see him again.

most drunk encounter ever

i've had some fairly drunken encounters ... sometimes it's me ... sometimes it's the other bloke ... but i recently had probably my most drunken one !

i don't drink a huge amount these days, but i got home at about 3am after a great night out with a Uni mate that i hadn't seen in ages ...

i checked Grindr before falling into bed ... but just as i was about to turn out the light, a really hot guy contacted me, and was totally up for it ... and really closeby ...

for the first time in my life, i got out of bed ... put some clothes on ... put a new set of contact lenses in ... and waited for him to arrive !

when he did, he was just as cute as his pics ... and i don't think it was just my beer goggles !!

the trouble was that he was either nervous, or guilty, or unsure about me ... and after some messing around, it felt like he was going to give up and leave ...

we ended up just wanking off together ... and it's a tribute to his hotness that despite my drunken state, i was still able to get off !

the next day i checked Grindr again ... and he had either blocked me, or deleted his profile !

first day back from holiday

a combination of a two week holiday with family ... and a previous injury ... meant that i hadn't had any sexual activity for a couple of weeks ...

the day i got back home after a long flight, i got a few hours sleep ... and headed to the gym to relax ...

sometimes i can go over a week visiting the gym without any action happening in the steam room ... but thankfully this time i got lucky straight away !

when this happens, it really does make me feel happy that i live where i do !!

Out of action due to steam room damage

i was in the gym steam room recently ... and this guy was up for some fun ...

He wasn't that young, but he seemed over excited about getting it on ... and once he got his hands on my dick he couldn't stop ...

the trouble was that he wasn't using any sort of lube, and it started to get sore ... and despite me trying to get him to use some spit ... he just wasn't listening.

eventually i gave up, left the steam room ... and went to the showers to finish myself off !

later that day i realised that my dick was properly sore ... and discovered that it was damaged.

it took a couple of weeks to properly heal ... probably the longest time i haven't ejaculated since puberty !

saying goodbye properly to FWB

having messed around recently with a friend who is leaving London soon ... i was due to see him a few days ago to go to a concert ... but flakey fecker that he is, he didn't make it ... but suggested going for dinner after the concert finished ...

when he finally arrived ... we had a pleasant meal ... and whilst we were finishing off ... i took off my shoe, and used my foot to massage his groin ... quite discreetly !

he was supposed to have gone out clubbing with other friends after dinner, but tiredness and a hard on convinced him that he should come back to my place instead ...

apparently he came back to my place in May ... but i don't remember it very well ... i guess it wasn't great sex !  i think i will remember this one - but not necessarily for the right reasons ...

over dinner it came up in conversation that he had never been penetrated ... and that he even found fingers sore ... so once we got naked, and started getting down to it ... i started experimenting with his ass ...

watching his face carefully to make sure that it didn't become too painful - i gradually managed to get him to relax and enjoy having his ass played with ...

the trouble was that he started getting really into it, and i was probably putting a bit too much energy into it ... and since his ass was relaxed, i was more concentrating on his dick ... and i didn't realise that his ass was bleeding a bit ...

i stopped and cleaned him up with tissues ... and he didn't seem to be in any pain ... i just hope it wasn't too painful the next day.

we eventually shot our loads ... and fell asleep together.

he got a taxi home a few hours later, as he hadn't brought his contact lenses with him.

hopefully we will see each other again in the years to come ...   

upgraded STD clinic

my local STD clinic was a bit run down, and last time i was there getting a Hep B vaccination, they mentioned that they would be moving into a separate building (at that stage they were in part of my local hospital).

the other day I went back for what will hopefully be my final Hep B injection - although it will take another couple of months before i find out whether they worked this time ...

the new building is very pleasant - it feels more like a fancy office block than a clap clinic !  on the outside there is barely a mention of what it is !

thankfully the obnoxious receptionists weren't on either the main entrance reception or the floor which i visited (although i did see one of them on another floor as my lift opened to let out another person - so sadly he hasn't left).

there used to be a special time allocated to "men who have sex with men" - but this is no longer available - we seem to have moved down the pecking order !  to get a separate "service" - you now have to fall into one of the following categories:

Trans
Specialist sexual difficulty - although it's not clear what constitutes one
Learning disability
Adult entertainment worker
Viral hepatisis
Under 19 years old
Black or Minority Ethnic

as well as getting my Hep B injection, i also had a full STD testing - and it turns out that they now want you to do your own throat and anal swabs.  the nurse who took my blood in fact did my throat swab, whilst i had the pleasure of visiting the bathroom to do an anal swab (and piss in a bottle). doing my own anal swab felt odd !

anwyay, the good news is that despite losing my urine sample, they found it a couple of hours later ... and all of the test results are clear.

stuck in the middle with you

a good few months ago i was "lucky" enough to be in the steamroom with two guys who both had their hands on me ... although it did result in some pain !

the other day i was back in the same steamroom ... and was again between two guys ... and again they both had their hands on me ... and again it resulted in some pain !

on my left was a lovely asian guy, with a relatively short but extremely hard dick ... and whilst i played with his dick, he played with my ass ...

on my right was a nice enough white guy with a large dick ... and whilst i played with his dick, he played with mine ... and that's where the problem occurred ...

he just wasn't using enough spit / lube ... and was working away fairly vigorously ... and it just got a bit sore ... still is a bit !

eventually i got him to stop, and i worked on it myself ... and he seemed keen for me to shoot my load on him ... so standing in front of him, and leaning into him, i did.

the two guys didn't seem like they were about to cum ... and i was in danger of overheating ... so i left without seeing either of their cumshots :(

saying goodbye to FWB

the closest i've ever managed to having a Friend With Benefits, is the guy who I dated for a while about 18 months ago ... but whom I now just see occasionally ...

sadly his job in London is coming to an end ... and he sort of looked for a replacement here ... but he's decided to go back home to Asia ...

whilst he was too flaky ever to be a boyfriend ... and probably too flaky to even count as FWB ... but we had fun / enjoyed each other when we did manage to meet !

for probably our last meeting (i might just see him one last time next week) ... we arranged to go to one of the nice gyms in the chain that i'm a member of ... although this gym doesn't have a male only steam room ... there aren't usually many women around towards closing time ...

and so it was again this time ... so i took a chance, and in the far corner of the steam room - that hopefully couldn't be seen through the glass wall ... i started playing with him ... and before too long he was shooting his load ... and shortly afterwards, using his cum as lube ... i shot mine on him !

goodbye.  i will miss our occasional sessions.

bloke on a crutch

by the evening of the "report card" encounter, i was feeling horny again ... and thankfully other guys were too !

i started chatting to a guy who wanted to give a Blow Job ... his english was a bit hard to understand, but we sorted out where he was (not far away), and agreed that i would come over and deliver a load.

on my way, i mentioned that i needed a piss ... and he asked for that too !

when i arrived he was just wearing his boxers, and using a crutch !  he was better looking than his pics - both body and face ... which was a nice surprise !

after he took off his underwear and got into his bath, i complied with his request and emptied my bladder.  i started working up to emptying my balls ... like the report card guy, he also had a beautiful uncut cock, a real handful.  before too long he was shooting his load, and i had to play catch up this time!

he shot a nice big hot load ... so it didn't take me long to add mine to his.

before i arrived he said that he didn't want chat, just cum and go ... but afterwards we did chat whilst he showered to remove all the liquids from his hot body !

he lives fairly close - i'm surprised i hadn't seen him online before ... maybe we will manage a repeat encounter ...

report card

i had been chatting to a guy on Jackd for about a day ... and he was keen to meet up ... so the other morning we did just that ...

he was quite cute - a bit smaller than i was expecting ... and nice and friendly ...

we'd had some discussion beforehand about kissing - i'm keen on it, and prefer guys who are too ... but he didn't seem overly keen.  thankfully when we met, he was ok with kissing - even if i had to get him to slow down, to enjoy longer / slower kisses !

we knew we only had an hour before he had to head off ... so we got down to business fairly quickly ... he had a beautiful uncut dick - which always helps !

before we met, he suggested that he was looking to btm that day ... so after some preliminaries, i complied with his request !  he was a bit of a moaner - i suspect he watches a lot of professional porn !  but still, i prefer that than somebody who is dead silent.

i was trying to time our ejaculations so we both shot together ... and i thought he was close, so i started shooting ... but it turned out that he wasn't !  i couldn't keep penetrating him, so i had to use my fingers to stimulate his ass for another couple of minutes, until he shot his load.

he was able to stay for a bit afterwards, which was great ... and he seems like a nice guy - although fairly recently out of a relationship, so probably still a bit fragile.

a couple of hours later, he sent a message saying "Amazing", and that he really enjoyed it.  i couldn't stop myself showing it to a mate that i was having lunch with - who knows what i get up to.  my mate laughed, and said it was like getting a report card at school :)

steam room argument

i was in one of my regular gym steam rooms the other day ... there was an Arrogant guy - with a good body and a nice dick ... and a more Friendly guy - also with a nice body and a good dick ...

it looked like we might get it together ... but sadly a couple of guys came in wearing swimming togs - a clear sign that they were unlikely to be up for any action :(

i headed out of the steam room to take a shower and head off ... but shortly afterwards i saw the Arrogant guy in discussion with one of the Swimming Tog guys ...

i couldn't work out whether they knew each other, or whether the Swimming Tog guy was complaining to the Arrogant guy ... the conversation went back and forth for a couple of minutes ... and ended with the Arrogant guy telling the Swimming Tog guy to "fuck off".

it reminded me that one does need to be discreet in the steam room !