one date

i'd chatted to this guy for a couple of week on Scruff ... and after a bit, i figured out that he wanted a proper date before we did anything more intimate ...

so we met up for a couple of drinks - and he seemed like a reasonably interesting guy

physically he was smaller than i expected - but he was definitely attractive

he appeared keen to meet another time at my place (he couldn't host) for some naked activities

the trouble was that he didn't seem prepared / able to find time to actually meet

and then when it seemed like we finally might make it happen - he wanted more details about what i wanted to do when we met !

i couldn't work out if he just wasn't that interested in me ... or maybe he doesn't often actually get naked with guys and was nervous ... or maybe he was a bit too self centred to find time for anything beyond his own interests

eventually i told him that we just needed to accept that it wasn't going to happen

he seemed shocked that i was pulling the plug.  but i really can't be bothered with guys who don't get on with things !

 

final time with the beautiful guy

after a couple of previous encounters with a stunning looking guy ... i'd had a couple of instances where things hadn't worked out ... so i didn't think he was interested ...

but we ended up beside each other again ... and it was getting towards closing time ... and he was clearly up for it ...

a canadian guy that i chat to in the gym (and i know is gay) entered the steam ... and it was a bit weird - almost like wanking off in front of a friend ... especially as the canadian guy wasn't showing off his (large) dick on this occasion ...

but the stunning guy beside me didn't seem to mind ... as i played with his nipples and dick and ass !

the stunning guy wanted me to shoot on him ... so i did ... whilst the canadian guy watched

but sadly the stunning guy had been in the steam too long - so didn't produce a cumshot of his own


this turned out to be my last steam room encounter at this gym ... as i ended my membership at this chain soon afterwards.  hopefully my new gym chain will also provide some new opportunities ...

overly keen sucker

i should be able to tell by now that when a guy is really, really keen ... it's probably not going to end well ...

this guy wanted to come over and suck me off ... so i decided i would, despite him not being the most attractive ever ...

when he arrived he also turned out to be more overweight that his photos suggested ... but i still didn't say know, and we went up to my flat ...

he was a bit rough with my nipples and my dick ... and i told him more than once that i wasn't into it

i'm not sure if he was just too keen and over excited, or he was just selfish as that's what he wanted to do

whatever the reason - he won't get a second invite !

 

surprise me

i'd been chatting to this guy on "romeo" for a while, but we hadn't managed to hook up ...

but late one evening, we agreed that i would visit him ...

the trouble was that he turned out to be significantly heavier than his photos ... and he somehow looked more feminine too - not sure how that happened

he was really, really keen to suck me off ... the trouble was that he wasn't particularly good at it !

i tried to encourage him to put more suction into it - but he didn't seem to get it

he wanted me to cum in his mouth ... and told me not to give him any warning ...

eventually i did - which was quite fun, as most guys want to know in advance

unfortunately he didn't shoot his load - apparently he'd wanked off a couple of times previously that day

sadly i won't be back !

  

Pushed away

i wrote ages ago about the comedy of guys wanting to sit beside the big dicked guy in the steam room ...

little did i know that i would embarass myself with similar behaviour !

it was getting close to closing time at the gym - so we needed to finish things off in the steam ...

the straight guys had just departed - so there was rush to make things happen ...

the beautiful guy that i'd messed around with twice before was the centre of the action ... an overweight guy was on his knees sucking him ... and and not very attractive guy was sitting beside him ...

since i knew the beautiful guy liked to have his nipples played with - i stood in front of the seated guy, and leant over to touch the beautiful guy ...

the trouble was that the seated guy didn't like me making a move on his man ... to be fair my legs were making contact with him ... so i can see why he might take offence ...

and the seated guy pushed me away ... not just once, but repeatedly !


i know what i did was out of line - i will definitely endeavour to behave better in the future.

 

Sleep apnea guy

after not hosting a guy at my place in months ... two followed in quick succession ... followed by a third ...

we got down to business pretty quickly after he arrived ... and he turned out to be a good kisser - which is always a great way to start ...

not for the first time - he seemed to want to Bare Back ... without ever having discussed it in advance ... but it's not something i do ... so i avoided that !

it wasn't long before we'd both shot our loads ...

and thankfully he was able to stay for some post coital cuddle time ...

he'd mentioned that he had only been in the country for a few days on holiday ... and i guess combination of sex and time difference was what caused him to fall asleep in my arms after just a few minutes !

it was nice to hold this beautifully smooth malaysian guy as he slept ... but the trouble was that he suffered from sleep apnea - so i had to shake him every now and again to get him to breathe !

after a bit of a snooze he woke up, and headed off ...

nice guy

 

older guy

steam room encounters range from fantastic to fairly rubbish / odd ... this one definitely fell into the latter category ...

it was one of my regular gym steam rooms ... and it was just this one guy (who was a bit older than i normally go for) and myself ...

i was feeling horny, so decided that i would go for it ... and before long i'd shot my load on him ...

he almost seemed too eager ... and also rather odd ... but he didn't shoot ...


i guess you win some, and you (half) lose some !

another no pics visitor

these days i never meet guys without seeing their facepics ... and of course i have facepics to swap ... but i don't have dickpics ... and some guys require images of my crown jewels in advance - so i miss out on those potential encounters !

but i recently met a guy who didn't seem that bothered about seeing my face in advance - which was unusual ... and within a week i'd met another guy who didn't even ask for my facepics ...

he was a nice enough guy ... but he could have been more freshly washed ... and he was relatively hairy - which is a bad combination !
 
after messing around for a while, i started penetrating him ... and i accept that if you're going to mess with a guy's ass, shit is an occupational hazard ... but i don't think i've ever end up with brown on my own stomach !

it wasn't particularly sexy, so i decided to move things along ... and i wanked him off ... and quickly follow up with a load of my own ... which accidentally hit his face ... which he didn't seem to worry too much about

he stayed for a good while afterwards - letting me hold him, which i alway enjoy.  but he didn't speak a huge amount himself ...

it seemed like he really was bi (not just trying to convince himself) - and that most of his previous experience was with women.  like the previous guy, he was a lot more mature than you'd expect for somebody in his early twenties.  i got the impression that one of his parents might have died when he was young (but i could have over interpreted) - but he was obviously close to his brother, which was good.

he seemed somewhat unhappy with himself - maybe he really was only trying to be straight ... who knows.

suspect he's the sort of guy who will delete the app ... and download it again in a few months !

 

button

whilst i'm still currently sidelined due to a crotch rash ... here's a gym encounter from beforehand ...


i'd had dealings with this guy previously ... on that occasion he shot, but i didn't

this time, we were again in showers opposite each other ... and he soon began to grow in size ...

before long we were back in the steam again ...

and this time i shot my load on him ... and he followed soon afterwards with a load of his own

he really is older and more overweight than i normally go for ... but i can't resist his beautifuly smooth black skin

 

This is going to be good

since i'm currently out of action due to a medical issue that's Probably not Thrush ... this event happend before i was sidelined ...


i had chatted months and months ago to a guy on Squirt ... but he didn't have any facepics ... so i didn't meet him ...

but he contacted me again recently - and this time he did have photos of his face ... and whilst they weren't the best pics ever - i thought he was worth meeting ...

so he hopped in an Uber and made his way over to my place - since he wasn't able to host ...

and i never quite got around to sending him my photos - i'm not even sure if i have ever uploaded any to Squirt - since it's not a site i really use to meet guys

as usual i went down to the front door of my building to meet him - to make it easier to say no ... but there was no need to say no, as he was better looking than his photos !

as we entered my flat he said "this is going to be good" - with just a bit of excitement in his voice ... which seemed like an odd thing to say

we got down to business straight away ... and he turned out to be pretty good

afterwards i asked him what age he was ... and he claimed to be 20 years old ... but he seemed way more mature than that ... and too good at sex for somebody that young !

he didn't hang around for long - as he was flying out that evening

after a couple of less than excellent experiences, i now try to limit myself to guys above 25 years old ... but i might make an exception (again) for this guy if he asks !

 

Probably not Thrush - day thirteen

Today's job was to go back to the clap clinic and get my dick checked out !

It's still not fully healed - there's still a bit on the tip of my dick that's still a bit gooey ... but it's a huge amount better than before

A very nice female doctor made me very comfortable whilst manhandling my manhood - unfortunately the male doctor who saw me last time wasn't working today

Today's doctor agreed with last week's doctor (as they tend to do) - that it was most likely a reaction to medicine that I'd taken ... and suggested it should be fully cleared up in a week ...

That will be three weeks without sex - what a waste of my life !


As usual there was some interesting people watching to be done in the clap clinic waiting room - a couple of guys scratching their groins was fairly standard ...

what was more interesting was a couple (hetero) who were quite happy to be there together - and were both being seen by doctors.  I'm guessing that they were condirming they're both free of STDs before dispensing with condoms ... as i'm guessing they wouldn't be that happy if one of them had just picked up something !

 

Probably not Thrush - day nine

I finally did a trip into the city centre on day seven - I couldn’t walk very fast as my dick rubbing against my underwear was unpleasant / sore.

On day eight i went into town again - and it was definitely getting a bit easier. 

I phoned the clap clinic this morning for my results - all of them came back negative. Although the doctor did emphasise that since the herpes swab was taking more than a few days after it first appeared, the test result would probably show negative.

It turned out that the doctor didn’t even bother testing for Thrush / Candida - either it was too long after the original outbreak, or he was so confident it wasn’t that.

So I’m left with “wounds” that are still oozing / messy, but gradually getting better. The doctor told me to complete the course of antibiotics and anti virals - despite the test results all being negative.

The doctor I saw on Day Six said that I shouldn’t use any soap or other cleaning product on my dick - just “ bathe in salt water”. This is easier said that done when you only ever shower, and you wash your hair in the shower !

The results doctor today said I should still attend the follow up appointment, even though it is gradually improving.

Postcript - the clinic's IT system finally caught up a week later and sent me a text msg with my results:

Chlamydia
Rectal: Negative
Throat: Negative
Urine: Negative

Gonorrhea
Urine: Negative
Rectal: Negative
Throat: Negative

On the phone, they also said that my HIV, syphillis, herpes and bacterial tests were all negative

  

Probably not Thrush - day six

So after five days where the rash didn't go away, and my dick was getting more manky ... i went to my local STD clinic (after being turned away by my local hospital the previous day) ...

On arrival you thankfully don't have to explain verbally what your symptoms are - which you do at the hospital A&E.  At the clap clinic they give you a piece of paper with lots of options to tick ... so i selected the "manky dick" box and handed it back to the receptionist !

She immediately sent me up to the treatment floor with the form I'd just ticked.  The next receptionist took the form and told me to take a seat.  It's usually fun to people watch at the clap clinic - but it wasn't so busy today, so there was less drama unfolding.

When my turn came, the doctor summoned me as "mister X" - rather than by my first name ... am I getting too old to be called by my first name ?!

I explained the last five days of woe ... and he asked me if I'd been taking any medication.  I mentioned some anti inflammatories a few weeks ago, and the hayfever pills.  He suspected it was the Ibuprofen, and that previous incidents of Thrush (he kept calling it candida, he never used the word Thrush) might actually have been drug reactions as well.

I even mentioned that the blisters appeared the day after I'd masturbated ... oh the shame !

He took a look at the mess - and told me that he didn't think it was herpes, and probably not candida either, as he would have expected candida to have cleared up by now.

He took swabs of my dick, and a decent vial of blood.  And he got me to go do a urine sample, and to swab my own throat and ass - separately !

Since it would take a while to get the test results, he decided to give me both antibiotics and anti viral medication, just in case.  I guess he reckoned that after five days, it has been long enough.

So there we are - maybe it wasn't even Thrush ... maybe we will never know.

One thing is for sure - I'm not taking those same bloody hayfever pills ever again !
 

Probably not Thrush - day five and a half

After a comment on my earlier post today ... i remembered that way back the first time i had Thrush, i was given a single pill to take ...

The commenter suggested that i should get "fluconazole" from my pharmacy ...

So i did a bit of research in advance, and discovered that fluconazole is the active ingredient in Canesten Duo - which is a combined pill and ointment treatment that's available over the counter

I had a look at an online pharmacy that i'm registered with, but this Duo treatment only showed up in the women's section ... so i was forced to head off to my local high street outlet ...

I asked the nice pharmacy man for it - pointing it out behind the counter ... and confirmed that it was for me ... and confirmed that i'd had the active ingredient before ...

But when the pharmacist read the container - he informed me that it was only for female customers ... that if a male customer wanted it, then i would need a prescription !

I should have just said that it was for my "girlfriend" ... and dared him to call me out !!

So off i wander to my local medical clinic, and inform the receptionist that I'm looking for a prescription for the Thrush tablet ...

After not too long a wait I see a doctor, and explain my Thrush symptoms, and the blisters, and the prescription i'm looking for ...

But the doctor tells me that blisters aren't normal for Thrush, and that it might be herpes !

But his clinic doesn't do STD examinations - so i will have to go to the STD clinic tomorrow

awesome.
 

Probably not Thrush - day five

i guess it was inevitable that those blisters would burst ... but i had thought that maybe they were just full of air, and they would just deflate !

so the reality of liquid oozing from my dick was not pleasant ... but it wasn't vomit inducingly awful either ... just unpleasant.

the trouble is that now i can't put any more thrust cream on my dick for a while, until the blisters dry up.  but considering that i might have previously been putting too much on (maybe that's what caused the blisters in the first place) - maybe it's not such a bad thing.

the general itchiness is maybe a little higher than yesterday, but hard to tell what is the main thrush, and what is the blisters.

the redness might be slightly higher than yesterday, but not much different.

part of writing this day by day account was so that i would be able to refer to it in future, as i can't remembe how long it took previous instances to fade ... i think maybe a week, but considering my current state - i suspect this one will be more like 10 days before i'm fully recovered