crawling around the undergrowth

i was recently away on holiday with a friend ... and since we were sharing hotel rooms the opportunities for "fun" were quite limited ...

after about a week, I was getting seriously horny, and so when a cute guy wanted to meet up (and he coudn't host either), i suggested that we meet up at the beach ...

the trouble was there was quite a bright moon, and that the only cover was some bushes / trees at the back of the beach, near a cycle path !

we managed to climb in, but I had visions of us being killed by snakes / alligators ...

thankfully neither of those happened ... but it was a rather rushed, and not hugely satisfying encounter !

STD haven ?

i had seen this guy online who seemed to live nearby ... and whilst he looked hot ... he was on PrEP, and seemed to engage in unsafe sex.

one evening i was feeling particularly horny, and thought that as long as i didn't partake in unsafe sex, i would be ok ... so i messaged him, and he agreed to come over - possibly after having sex with another guy (it wasn't clear) !

it was a reasonably enjoyable encounter, and he did try to initiate unsafe sex, but i was strong, and didn't give in !

a couple of days afterwards i noticed loads of little tiny wart like things on my hands.  it made me wonder if there was a connection.

thankfully they disappeared in about a week, without any treatment.

what counts as cheating ?

i was recently enjoying myself in the gym steam room ... where there was a guy who appeared to be gay, but didn't partake ... so i guess he might be partnered ...

which made me think ... what counts as cheating ?

if you watch other guys wanking off, but don't do it yourself ?
if you wank yourself off (whilst watching other guys) but don't touch them ?
if you let another guy touch your nipples, but don't let him touch your dick ?
if a guy asks you to turn around so he can see your ass ... so he can wank off (but not close enough to shoot on you) ?
if a guy asks you to part your cheeks so he can see your asshole ?

where do you draw the line ?!

22 hours later

the Label gym will soon overtake the tag date on my blog ... oh dear !

but sometimes a gym encounter can turn into a seriously enjoyable time !!

i was recently in the gym, and saw this really beautiful black guy in the changing room - clearly happy for people to enjoy looking at his body, as he put lotion on his beautifully smooth skin ... walked around fully naked ...

a few days later I saw him in the steam room ... clearly up for some action ... and whilst we enjoyed each other briefly, neither of us got off ...

so when we chatted in the changing room afterwards, I suggested that we meet up sometime ... I didn't realise that he took that to mean straight away ... but after waiting in the lounge for him to finish dressing, it was clear that was what he intended !

which was fine with me - we went back to my place ... and had a very enjoyable session ... and he stayed the night ... and we had some more fun the next day too.

High and annoying

I had been chatting to a guy online about meeting up ... we had previously chatted about 9 months ago, but had never actually met up ...

He seemed quite nervous, and probably hadn't met that many guys, as he was quite recently out of a relationship with a woman.  He dropped into the online chat a question about drugs ... and as usual I replied that I didn't really use them, but I was fine with him doing so.  Normally it's not really an issue when I meet up with a guy - but I'm not really a fan.

I went over to his place, and he was quite a bit heavier than his photos suggested ... but I was horny, and he was keen, so I thought I might as well just get on with it !

He was a nice enough guy ... but I think the drugs he had taken (he said that it was some sort of legal high) put him on edge ... he seemed quite nervous and not fully with it (asked the same question again within a few minutes).

Anyway, after a while we sorted each other out.

Before we had even cum, he suggested meeting again ... but I doubt we will.

Steamroom gaydar

Sometimes it's really obvious when a guy is up for it ... the best indication is when they are in the steamroom fully naked, and looking around - often sitting on top of their towel ...

Another easy spot is when he has his towel meeting at his crotch for easy access - and he starts to touch himself ...

But there was a guy the other day who entered the steamroom ... sat down the far end ... and had his towel wrapped so tightly around himself that he couldn't possibly access his goods !

I looked over at him (he was really fit), and touched myself through my towel - you never know when a member of gym staff will be using the steamroom, so I'm quite careful - with zero expectation that he was going to react ...

Next thing I know, he stands up and unwraps his towel - I think I gasped as his beautiful dick flopped out - and rearranged it so he can access his dick more easily ... and shortly after, he moved over to my end of the steamroom !

Before too long, I manipulated him into shooting a nice load :)

Just goes to show, you never know who will be up for it in the steamroom!

Trying out V

A few years ago I bought some Viagra (through a reputable high street pharmacy chain) ... as I wanted to see what it was like.

It has sat in my bedside drawer for ages ... and I recently got it out to see what the expiry date was!  Impressively, it still has another couple of years to go, but I thought I really should use it ...

The instructions say that you should take it an hour beforehand, and not on a ful stomach (for maximum impact) ...

I took half a pill ... and waited ... and within 45 minutes, as soon as I got horny, I could feel that it just didn't go down !

The instructions said that I might feel flushed, and get a blocked nose - and I got both of those.

In the end, I didn't actually meet the guy I was expecting - so I didn't get to use it in anger, so to speak !

But a week later, I took the other half of the pill ... and did meet up with a guy.  I didn't feel quite as flushed, or as nasally as before (maybe next time it will be a bit less again).

Both times I thought I was producuing more precum than usual ... and the guy I met was shocked by how much I was leaking!

I'm lookig forward to using the other three pills :)

Rugby and fun ...

In case you haven't noticed, it's Rugby World Cup time ... and I took a trip to another city in the UK to watch my country play one of the minnows of the tournament !

Sadly I hadn't managed to persuade any of my family / friends to come on this trip ... but that meant that I was able to look into having some fun after the match ...

One of the guys I chatted to online seemed keen to meet, and lived really close to the stadium ... so we arranged to rendez-vous in the street nearby ...

After some confusion I went to the agreed spot ... and he found me ... I'm not sure I would have recognised him from his photos ... but at least it means that my photos must be reasonably representative !

After getting back to his place, and slowly removing each other's clothes ... it turned out that this guy's dick had the biggest head that I think I've ever seen !  Whilst his dick was generously sized, the head was just enormous !!

After a while we both climaxed.  Quite an enjoyable addition to the rugby win.

Bad timing

I was in the steamroom with a couple of guys recently ... and things started to happen ... but the temperature was so damn high, that I had to get out for a few minutes ...

When I returned #2 guy had left ... and #3 guy was cleaning up having just shot a load ... I really enjoy watching a guy shoot, so missing an eruption is always disappointing !

I asked #3 guy if #2 guy had cum as well - and apparently he had ... double disapointment !

So I sorted myself out, as I watched #3 guy clean up his cum ... so he got to see me shoot ... before he left for a shower.

Shortly afterwards #2 guy arrived back into the steamroom, as I was about to leave ... and it turned out that he hadn't cum !

What a waste of good cumshots ...

Steamroom halitosis

Sometimes in the steamroom, when I'm getting it on with a guy, they are keen to kiss ...

And usually I'm very happy to partake ... but recently I was enjoying a nice guy, and we started to kiss ... but he had fairly manky breath !

If this happened elsewhere, I would have told him to go and clean his teeth ... but it's not really something you can do in the steamroom ...

So we sorted each other out without any further kissing !

just say no (3)

I've written a couple of times before about how uncomfortable it is to say NO after arranging to meet a guy ...

8 years later, and I still don't find it easy !

The other day I arranged for a guy to come over to my place ... and to meet outside my apartment block ...

He turned out to be a lot heavier than his photos, and considerably less attractive !

We chatted for a few minutes whilst standing outside ... before I broke it to him that I wasn't up for it ...

He seemed to take it out, and he headed off ...

beach action

i've had an account on the website squirt for some time ... but I'm not sure that i've ever used it to actually meet a guy - it doesn't feature in my blog labels (up to now) !

i was visiting my parents in the town where i grew up, and since they live on a small street, in a relatively small town, where everybody knows everybody's business ... it's harder to have guys around for fun ...

so i thought i would check out the squirt listings to see what they recommended for places to meet guys ...

i was surprised to find that there is a nudist beach near my home town !

one sunny afternoon i drove over, and was amused to see a german car in the car parking area - good to see that the stereotype is alive and well :)

after a bit of a hike - i arrived on a beautiful, almost deserted beach ... and followed the squirt instructions (turn left for clothed, turn right for nudist) ...

i felt a bit guilty walking into the nudist section without stripping off - but there weren't that many people there (one woman and about a dozen guys) ... and since i was planning on contributing in other ways, i thought i could get away with it !

after a nice walk to the end and back, i spotted a guy at the start of the beach who showed some interest both times i walked past ... so i climbed up a sand dune to where he was camped out ...

there were a few other guys around also showing interest ... but i decided to stay with the first guy.  he was pleasant enough - and we both climaxed ... but i'm not sure how comfortable in his own skin he was.  maybe he was just a bit odd !

i will definitely try the beach again - in the hopes of an even more enjoyable encounter.

Foreign encounter with a sad guy

After almost of week travelling around southeast europe, I finally found a guy that I felt comfortable meeting up with, and who wanted to meet me !

I went over to his place, and we started chatting. He worked for a charity that promoted minority rights - and he worked on promoting LGB rights ...

There was something quite sad about him ... I'm not sure if he was sad that in his home country it's quite hard to be gay (although he told me that it's worse in the neighbouring countries) ... and that he couldn't leave (not being a member of the EU, he can't easily move) ... or maybe he was sad that he didn't have a boyfriend, and was reduced to sexual encounters ... or maybe he was sad that I wasn't more fit !

Anyway, after a good chat, we got down to business ... and sorted each other out.

After I'd left, I asked him (through the app) why we hadn't gone into his bedroom for fun ... and he replied that he never takes guys into his bedroom ... which sounds a bit sad to me !

When arrangements go wrong

I've written before about a local guy that I've met a good few times over the years ...

In the past I've always gone to his place, but we recently arranged for him to come over to mine ... since I don't have to worry so much about making sexual noises in my apartment !

He was going to have a shower and come over ... but before I heard from him again, I decided that since I had a bit of a cold, it's wasn't a good idea to meet up (and it wasn't fair to give it to him) ... so I texted him to let him know that I was calling a raincheck ...

It turned out he had already texted me, and was standing outside my apartment block ... but his text messages hadn't arrived.

This was obviously far from ideal ... and I apologised ... but his reaction was quite surprising.  He accused me of getting a better offer, and said he never wanted to have any contact again.

Considering how many times that we have met over the last few years - I thought he might give me the benefit of the doubt ... especially since it's quite possible that we will bump into each other - he only lives a few streets away ...

Next time I need to cancel - I will make sure that the guy hasn't already left home (I thought he would have told me before he left) ... and I will also make it clear that I'm not ditching him for a better offer !

STD ?

I recently met a guy for an encounter which including him performing quite a bit of rimming ...

Shortly afterwards my ass started to hurt ... and I thought that he had given my an STD ...

Whenever I go for a sexual health check, they always want to know where my partners are from ... presumably because HIV and STDs are more prevalent in certain countries ... This guy was from Russia, and he was married ... so I don't know if that put me at a greater risk ...

After a couple of days of resigning myself to a visit to my local clap clinic ... I started to wonder if it was actually just beard rash !

After a few more days, the discomfort went away - so I'm now convinced that I had beard rash on my ass from a rimmer !

Economy with the truth - busted !

I know I'm not alone in shaving a couple of years off my age on dating apps / profiles !

It gets me below one of the zeros - which people use for filtering potential dates ... So it opens up more options :)

And it really is only a couple of years - and I'm pretty sure I can get away with looking a couple of years younger than my actual age !

The trouble is that when you check into a hotel / hostel ... the reception staff normally take your passport details - including your date of birth ...

And when you see that same receptionist on dating apps shortly afterwards ... your economy with the truth is totally busted !!

Have you been a Master before ?

I posted recently about an encounter where I was asked if I had previously fisted ... they say things come in threes ... well the other day I had another "have you ever" ... this time it was "been a master" ...

Once again, the trouble is that whilst I've had Dom/Sub elements to encounters - I don't think I've ever had a full encounter as a Master !

We did meet up - and he was particularly keen on feet ... Not something that does it for me ... But if he finds it enjoyable - who am I to deprive him ...

Whilst the whole encounter was vaguely enjoyable - I don't think I will be rushing back for more !

Eight things not to do on a date

I wrote recently about seven things not to do on a date ... and to be fair, the guy I went on a date with recently didn't do any of them !

But he did one thing that was pretty annoying ... he kept going on about how cute the waiter was !

I suspect that it was an attempt to signal that he wasn't interested in me physically / sexually ... since we stayed for a few drinks, and conversation was good !

And that's fine - i'm big enough and ugly enough not to expect everybody that I meet to want to jump my bones !  But going on and on about the waiter ... is just tacky.  I'm sure there's a better way to indicate lack of sexual interest.

And to be honest, whilst the waiter did have great eyes (and was a lot hotter than either me or my date) ... he wasn't all that !

seven things not to do on a date

I recently met up with a guy for a drink ... and whilst it wasn't awful, I knew within the first few seconds that it wasn't going to go anywhere.  I thought that it could at least provide some learning points - for me, and maybe others ...

1) if you don't wear glasses in any of your profile pics - don't show up for a date wearing glasses

2) don't use decade old photos in your profile, especially if you don't look anything like them (i wasn't even sure if it was the right guy when he came over to greet me)

3) don't show up late for your date - it's just rude, and starts things off on the wrong foot

4) don't give a limp handshake - use both hands if it helps !

5) don't just have a credit card - if you want to share a round have some cash.  buying the first round lets me easily escape without a 2nd drink - but it would be nice sometimes for the other guy to buy the first round

6) if your date tries to steer conversation away from a subject matter (probably because they're bored with it) - don't keep coming back to it !

7) if your date finishes their drink whilst you're half way through yours - offer to get them another one (to numb the pain of your dull conversation)

8) don't be too surprised if your date isn't rushing to rip your clothes off, if you have failed on the above six points !

have you fisted before ?

What counts as fisting ?

When soemebody asks you have you done it before, what do you say ?

I've played with a lot of asses, but have I actually fisted ... is there a technical definition for how many fingers / thumbs / inches of hand you have got in to qualify for the "fister" badge ?!

After this recent encounter, I'm pretty sure that I qualify for the badge !

He was only a few streets away, but his english wasn't the clearest ... so when he said Flat 2 ... I assumed it was buzzer marked "2nd floor" ... but when I got buzzed in, it wasn't clear what flat he was in ...

Thankfully he had left his door open ... and was on all fours, with his ass ready to be examined ...

It was a very enjoyable experience, and we both produced reasonably sized loads ... but I wouldn't want to spend all my time doing it.

Unfortunately he was a heavy smoker, so kissing wasn't very enjoyable.

very quick session

I was waiting to meet a friend, and browsing the local guys on Grindr ... and since my mate seemed to be a bit late, I took the opportunity to meet a local guy who was up for some quick fun ...

When I arrived he turned out to be better looking than his profile pics - how often does that happen ?!

And had a great body!  He was a bit too bossy for my liking ... but he was so hot that it didn't take me long to cum on his face!

Despite needing to go and meet my mate (who was by now phoning me to find out where I was) ... I kept stimulating the guy until he eventually shot his load !

Thankfully my (straight) friend was understanding when I explained why I was late !!

awesome session with a foreign soldier

One of the vaguely interesting aspects of travelling, is seeing what apps are most popular in different parts of the world !

I was recently in eastern europe, and it turns out that Hornet is where most of the guys hang out.  Thankfully I have a wide selections of apps installed on my phone, so there's usually something for every occasion !!

My first attempt at meeting a guy failed, when just before he was due to come over he said that he needed a bit of money to help with his study ... and whilst it really wasn't a lot of money ... and whilst I don't have a moral objection to people paying for sex ... I was annoyed about how he went about it ... and I haven't yet paid for sex ... so I told him to take a hike.

However the next attempt (in another city) was much more fruitful ...

His english was barely functional, but with the help of Google Translate, we managed to sort out arrangements for him to come to my hotel ...

We started off with a shower together ... and he turned to be the best sexual encounter that I've had in a long time!  I tend to acquire techniques from different encounters ... but he seemed to have acquired them all, and was able to deploy them in rapid order.  He was so good that I wondered whether he was in fact a professional (and I still have a nagging thought) !

He had a beautifully natural body - although he was clearly very strong/fit, he didn't have that overly developed gym bunny / bodybuilder look.  From the photos he had of himself, and from what I could gather from his broken english, I think he was a soldier.

He seemed like a genuinely nice guy, but after a couple of hours he need to leave ... so we both climaxed (he's the 2nd guy I've ever met who gets horniest when rimming) ... and there was no question of payment !

We were due to meet the following night, but he said that a friend had been taken to hospital and he wouldn't be able to come over.  I still see him on Hornet quite a lot - so maybe he is a professional sex worker ?!

another session with the guy who lives nearby

I sometimes meet up with a guy who lives really closeby ... they are usually quite quick sessions ... and sometimes not very memorable - looking at the messages on my phone, I think I failed to blog an encounter back in January !

I met up with him recently ... it was quite pleasant ... but he is slighly paranoid about not making too much noise, so his neighbours won't hear ... which is a bit dull !!

Maybe next time I can persuade him to come over to my place ...

High and Horny / Party and Play

I'm getting really bored of online profiles with H&H / HH (this term seems to have taken over from PnP / chem session) ... why do so many gay guys take drugs !

I'm so clueless about drugs that when a couple of guys I met up with recently started using a pipe - I didn't even know what they were taking !  Asking friends afterwards, it was suggested that they were probably using crystal meths.

It was a strange scenario - one really fit / hot guy ... and an older, rather unattractive guy ... who seemed to be supplying the cocaine and the crystal meths ... no surprise there !

They were really closeby, and it was vaguely enjoyable for a while ... but it felt like a risky encounter ... who know when they might turn crazy, or what sort of unprotected sex they had previously engaged in.

So I left after about 20 minutes ... without even ejaculating !

another session with the short young guy

hard to believe that it was September when I last met up with this guy ... he lives nearby, and I sometimes see him on the way to the tube station ...

he really is a sweet guy ... but as I said before, the sessions are too short for my liking ... and his mouth does taste of nicotine - but at least the rest of him doesn't !

Over and out ...

After previously enjoyable dates / sessions with the cute (but flaky) guy ... I had two dates with him where we didn't have sex ... he was stressed out over some exams ... but it still wasn't a good sign ...

I asked him afterwards over text message if it was over ... and he denied it ... but we clearly were !


Lessons learned:

1) if they start off being flaky (even if they get better for a while), they will probably revert to type
2) you need more than just good sex to establish a relationship
3) people who act like twenty-somethings are probably too young !

4th time with a guy ...

After three previous dates ... we went to the cinema (we were the only guys in a cinema full of women) which was good fun ... and back to my place ...

Only one climax this time ... this seems to be going in the wrong direction !

No further damage !!

3rd / 8th time with a guy ...

After a couple of enjoyable dates / sessions previously ... we met up again ...

This time we only had two sexual climaxes ... but still very enjoyable.

No further damage to my apartment !

2nd time / 6th time with a guy ...

A week after I first met this guy ... we arrange to meet again ... and once more he nearly cancels (this could get irritating) !

But we do finally meet ... first for a quick drink (we both have soft drinks this time) ... and then back to my place ...

Again, both the sessions before we go to sleep, as well as the one the next morning are very enjoyable ...

One fact which I discovered on the previous meeting was that the sounds of sexual activity make him excited ... which is a new erogenous activity for me !

Sadly I can't manufacture the same sounds as last time ... but thankfully he doesn't do any further damage to my bedroom wall ...

The next morning we sit at my dining table to eat breakfast ... all very civilised !

lay-by encounter ...

Whilst most of my friends at this stage know that I meet guys for fun ... I've never admitted to any of them, that I occasionally meet guys in less salubrious locations !

Even GB expressed surprise one time when I mentioned to him that I do enjoy the occasional cruising encounter ...

I was recently on holiday with a straight friend, and one day he wanted a relaxed day off, so I took the car and explored some different parts of the island ...

One of the areas I stopped at was a little lay-by which was mentioned on a useful website, as a place that guys meet ...

And as I arrived, the driver of a car who was already there, took a keen interest ... and shortly after, approached my car ... and motioned for us to walk into the trees ...

As we picked our way through a huge number of condom wrappers ... we were soon hidden from any unsuspecting motorists who might stop to stretch their legs !

The guy was a bit older than me, but not much, and knew how to give good head ... and it was a really quite enjoyable session (despite him never taking off his sunglasses) ... which resulted in him ejaculating at the sight of me cumming (without any manual stimulation of his dick at that point) ... not something I think I've seen before !

I'm sure that there are many serious discussions about why gay guys indulge in this kind of (relatively risky) behaviour ... but for me, it's partly nostalgia (harking back to the days when I was closeted and this was my only outlet) ... and partly because it feels a bit risky, and I get a thrill from that ...

1st time / 2nd time / 3rd time ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years ago ... and we were supposed to meet up, but he cancelled ... and we never managed to arrange another date ...

Seeing his sweet face again on Jack'd, I thought I would try one more time ... and we arranged to meet for a date in town ...

In a worrying sign of history repeating itself, he nearly cancelled again ... but he did agree to meet a bit later than previously arranged !

We started off with a drink (standing outside a straight bar) ... and he suggested going to a quieter bar ... so we went to the only gay bar that I ever go to (about once a year) ... and found a quiet section near the back ...

A gay couple who started snogging nearby was a good excuse to start kissing him ... and after one drink there (him of soft drinks, me on pints), he agreed to come back to my place ...

The two climaxes that night, and the one the next morning were all very enjoyable ... him unfortunately kicking and damaging the wall in my bedroom was less so !

coffee shop date with a posh guy ...

I meet all sorts of guys for fun and dates ... but rarely have I met a guy as posh as this one ...

I was going to meet him near his place ... and the fact that he chose to meet in a nice coffee shop was a good starting point ...

But when he opened his mouth, and I heard the plums ... I was a little surprised !

He was a nice guy, we had a really good chat ... and time flew by ... but I had to head off to an event ... which was a shame, as I suspect that he might have been up for some fun ...

I'm not sure that I would want to date this guy ... but I would definitely like to get him out of his clothes !

smoker ... thrown in the shower ...

I had arranged to meet this guy after he finished work ... and for him to come around to my flat ...

On my way home from the gym I was checking my phone and it turned out that he was ready early, so we met up in the street on the way to my place ...

He was chewing gum (often a sign of a smoker) ... and as we got into my flat, and I started to remove his clothes, I realised that he was a bit smelly after a day in the office ... so I threw him in the shower !

To his credit, he didn't protest ... and it definitely made the encounter much more enjoyable ... and with it being a hot day, sex became a bit of a sweaty exertion - but it was fresh sweat, so not smelly ...

I suspect that he might be coupled, as despite him working locally I had never seen him on Grindr before ... and as soon as he left, he blocked me !

Maybe he just didn't enjoy the encounter ... but considering how much cum he produced, i suspect he did find it pleasurable ...

walking date ... with online afters ...

I had chatted to this guy a couple of years previously ... but we had never met up ...

It was good to finally meet him ... we arrange to rendez-vous at a local station ... and from there we walked around for a while ... and made our way to another station ... him to head home, and me to go to meet friends ...

He was reasonably attractive ... but possibly a bit too hairy for my liking ... and he mentioned a few times about a problem that he is currently experiencing, which means that he isn't currently looking for a relationship !

Over the next couple of weeks, we chatted online ... and it resulted in him producing a couple of decent ejaculations ... which he was kind enough to share video clips of ...

It has all gone quiet now ... which is perhaps for the best.

Hairy and smelly ...

I was about to leave the city centre ... and was almost at the tube station, when a guy contacted me ...

He was at the upper end of my age range, but I was horny, and he looked reasonably attractive ...

I went around to his nearby hotel, and straight up to his room ...

He looked ok, and so we started to get down to business ...

He was quite hairy - not something that I really enjoy - but the main problem was that his crotch was quite smelly ...

It made oral sex really unpleasant !

It wasn't a very enjoyable encounter, as he also decided that he didn't want to ejaculate ... who knows, maybe I was odorous too !

Anyway, this has really put me off hairy people ... I am actively avoiding them at present ...

sex party ...

I think I've only been to a group session once before ... probably about eight years ago ...

The thing I remember most about that session ... was bumping into a guy from it, at a polite party a couple of months later ...

Recently I was chatting to a guy on Grindr who lived locally ... there were already about 5 guys there ... and he suggested that I come over ...

Since it was closeby, I thought I should go and investigate ... but when I rang the doorbell and didn't get a response, I nearly gave up and went home ... but after walking around the block, he was back on Grindr telling me to try again ...

The most memorable part of this session, was that as I entered the room where it was all happening ... a naked guy who was on all fours on the floor getting his ass seen to, decided that he had to get up and "welcome the new guy" !

I later realised that he was off his face on something, but he did seem to be a genuinely nice guy !!

One of the guys there had a particularly nice body (and dick) ... but there was an older guy who was a bit too full of himself ... and the couple who were hosting were a bit too camp for my enjoyment ...

I didn't stay that long in the end, as they were heading off to the older guy's house (something about having run out of drugs) ...

It wouldn't put me off trying it again, but it wasn't the most enjoyable of sessions ...

same hotel ...

I was staying in a hotel ... and having a look on various apps for a guy ...

And I started chatting to a guy who was in the same hotel as me ... a few floors below ...

I went down to his room ... and we had an enjoyable session ... but he was just back from the gym ... and was a bit smelly ...

It turned out that he was a Flight Attendant ... and had an early departure the next morning ...

asian guy who stayed over ...

I was trying to juggle meeting up with friends ... and meeting up with a date ...

I arranged to meet the date around 10pm - so I thought that would give me plenty of time to have dinner with my friends beforehand ...

In the end I had to confess to my friends that I had to meet a "date" and do a runner ... leaving them to pay the bill !

The date with reasonably nice ... and he came back to my place, and we had a enjoyable session ...

I never get a lot of sleep when a guy stays over (for the first few times) ... but I felt that I couldn't kick him out in the early hours of the morning ...

He has contacted me since then, but I'm not too interested.