The Inheritance

if you live in London and are interested in theatre, then you've probably already been to see the epic two part double bill that is Matthew Lopez's Inheritance

if, like me until recently, you haven't got around to seeing it ... then it's time to get a move on - the play closes in the West End on 19th January 2018

the adverts warn about "full frontal male nudity" - but it's more of a (unnecessary) gimmick, rather that anything to get excited / worried about ... it's in Part I, is fairly brief, unerect, and whilst the actor is incredibly fit, his equipment isn't that impressive

the play is seriously impressive though - no wonder it has won so many awards.  the acting is excellent.  the staging is simple but effective.

and whilst you might worry about spending 3 hours 20 minutes on two evenings (or twice in one day if you are really brave) in a theatre - it flies by.

i bought my tickets through TodayTix - who sell off seats for 20 quid at 10am each day.  for the Part II i forked out an extra 7 quid and bought a ticket five rows further in front of the 20 quid seats - which i think was money well spent.  there are lots of other ways to buy tickets !

a huge amount of the audience on the two evenings i went were gay men - but there were plenty of others there too !

you've got three weeks left - if you like plays, go see it

  

Bi Monday

i've written before about how the Bi guys come out to play during the summer ...

but i've recently uncovered another phenomena ...

there seem to be more Bi guys on the apps, and in the steam rooms on Mondays !

i reckon that they've had all weekend with their women (and kids) ... and by Monday they are desprate for some man action ... or just for some relief !

let me know if you notice the same thing ... or if you are part of the Bi monday explosion !!

 

seriously overweight guy

i've mentioned before that i don't normally go for overweight guys ...

but in the steam room the other day was a guy with beautiful skin ... who was up for some fun ...

he was seriously enormous - but young enough that he could just about get away with it !

once we got down to business he kept wanting to pull on my dick ... but he was too hard, so i had to stop him ...

his dick wasn't very big - but that may have been because he was so overweight

after a couple of interruptions, we got left alone long enough to shoot our loads ...

his was quite small ... but it had been a few days since i last shot ... so mine wasn't small !

 

Second coming

normally when i'm messing around with a guy in the steam ... i try and coordinate ejaculations so that they both happen fairly close to each other ...

the other day i was with a short guy with long hair ... who has a bit of a Jesus look about him ... who i've seen a few times before ... but never had a mutually explosive encounter ...

this time he was getting into it ... but he wasn't communicating about how close he was ...

and then he just starting cumming without any warning ... so it took me about 30 seconds to catch up !

i'm not sure if his english isn't great ... or whether he was high (he seemed to go back to the steam room afterwards for more) ... or he just isn't interested in cumming with other guys

whatever the reason, it was a bit of a downer - as he lost interest as soon as he started producing

onwards and upwards !

 

peak steam

one of the steam rooms that i regularly visit has recently become even more steamy than usual ...

it's not actually very hot, but the steam is thicker than normal ... which leads to some strange outcomes ...

it allows guys who are shy to lurk in the corner without gettting too involved ... which doesn't really do it for me

but it also means that when guys are getting it together, you don't know for definite who it is !

a guy walked in recently - and although i couldn't see his face at all ... just from his walk and shape - i was pretty sure it was a guy i recognised ...

before long he was getting it on with a guy beside him ... really going for it ... snogging ... fingering ... wanking ...

this was too much for me, and i couldn't restrain myself ...

i waited for them both to finish each other off before i opened the door and left ... i abide by my own steam room etiquette !

 

wrong chemistry

so many of my "steam room" post start with a description of waiting for the straight guys to leave before the Men who have Sex with Men get left alone to do their worst ...

but sometimes, even when it's only the gays left ... it still doesn't work !

the other day i was in the steam with four other guys who were definitely into guys ... but for some reason it just wasn't working ...

sometimes it's a question of layout - if the guys who are turned on by each other aren't seated beside each other ... then it just doesn't happen ...

sometimes it's a question of timing - if one (or more) of the guys aren't up for it ... then they can act as an anti catalyst ... and then it just doesn't happen ...

it felt like such a waste ... but after a while i just removed myself from the steam, and left without exploding

 

handshake

i've had some odd encounters in the steam room over the years ...

one of my favourite memories is of the bloke who was being hurried along by his straight mates ...

the other day i had a different experience ...

i'm sure i've seen the guy before - he's a nice enough guy, but he's overweight, and not really my type ... but when you're feeling horny ...

it was just the two of us left in the steam room ... but he was nervous and kept covering up ...

eventually we both shot our loads ... although his was so small that i missed it !

afterwards we chatted for a couple of minutes whilst cleaning up and calming down ...

as he left the steam room, he said "maybe seen you tomorrow" ... and extended his hand to shake mine ... which was still covered in cum !

 

covering up

it's fairly common to have to suddenly stop pleasuring oneself in the steam room, and cover up with your towel as somebody approaches or walks past ...

the other day i had a slightly different experience ... as another guy was playing with my dick ... when he noticed that somebody was coming ...

he let go of my dick, and moved my own towel to cover it !

i've never had a guy protect my modesty before !!

we tried again in the sauna later on, but it wasn't discreet enough for him ...

maybe we will manage it next time

 

a decade later

i met a guy years ago for a date ... and we ended up in his flat ... but his flatmate (also his ex) was asleep upstairs, so we had to be quiet ... so ended up shooting in the kitchen !

it was all very odd ... and i've bumped into him a few times since - i suspect he still lives in the same place ... and i've seen him on Grindr ... but i've never actually met up with him again

but the other day i was in one of my local gyms ... which has a jacuzzi in the men's locker room ... and saw him standing in it naked ... which was a nice surprise !

i smiled at him ... and went into the steam ... and before long he followed me in ...

and we got to work on each other ...

he's obviously older than the last time i had my hands on him ... and has developed little man breasts ... but otherwise he is still in great shape ... and has a beautiful uncut dick

it didn't take long before i was expressing my pleasure in liquid form ... but he didn't seem up for shooting ...

maybe i can persuade him to cum next time !

 

London Adult shops - Amex Shop Small offer

For the last few years American Express has been running a scheme in the first half of December to encourage customers to use their cards in smaller shops.  What they offer is a five quid statement credit when you spend 10 pounds or more - what is a damn fine offer!  This year it runs until Sunday 16th December

Last year i used the offer as a spur to do a tour of some of London’s sex shops - quite a few of which are included !  I meant to write up my findings - but failed.  This year I’ve revisited my findings, and have actually managed to put pen to paper ...

First it’s worth saying that even though I live in one of the most gay friendly cities on the planet, my heart still raced as i entered a sex shop for the first time in ages. You’d think that I would have lost the fear by now, but maybe entering a sex shop brings back memories of buying porn mags during my closeted years !

Anyway, onto the adult shops … if you’re only going to visit one sex shop in London, i would recommend heading over to Angel tube station, and going to a place called Regulation.  Firstly it’s very discreet - down a side street, and without big windows for people to look in and see you trying to select the right dildo for you. They operate a buzzer entry system, presumably to keep out the hen parties. Or if somebody happens to be coming out they will hold the door for you. Secondly the staff have been very friendly the couple of times that i’ve been there. In some other shops staff can get be a bit full of themselves, but not here.  And thirdly the shop has more space than others, and so it feels more relaxed and less hemmed in.  There’s a decent range of gear, but maybe not quite as much as in some others - it’s still my top choice though.

However they are moving to a new place in Soho, which opens on 21st December, and the Islington branch will apparently close a few days beforehand so they can move their stock across.  So don’t delay, and get yourself over to Angel.

My second choice is Clone Zone in Earls Court.  It’s more discreet than other shops, as they don’t have windows for everybody to see you.  The staff are also fairly friendly - although i wonder how many customers actually respond when asked if they need help (with their dildo selection). This shop is more tightly packed than Regulation, but it means they hold a good selection for a fairly small place.  There’s also a basement that you should go and have a look at !

My third recommendation is Soho Original Books on Brewer St.  It does have big windows, so people can see you inside, but there’s a certain "plausible deniability” about being in a shop with “Books” in the name!  This place is a mix of male and female sex objects, but probably more towards the gay side. The basement is mostly dvds and magazines and some other stuff.  The place has a slightly seedy feel - but in a reassuring sort of a way!

Also in Soho is Clone Zone on Old Compton St. It’s not very discreet, with big windows, so don’t go there first if you’re nervous. It’s a bit tightly packed so isn’t one of my favourites.  It also had a basement section which is definitely worth a visit.

If you’re checking out the shops in the Amex promotion, and come across one called Closet Case on Brewer St, don’t get excited.  It turns out to be a posh clothes shop!

There’s also a could of gay sex shops in Soho which are not part of the Amex Shop Small offer, as far as I can see - notably one starting with P, and it’s sister shop P Red.

Over by Old Street tube there’s a shop called Gear at 75 Great Eastern St.  Last year when i visited the premises it was called Expectations - but it’s now owned by a german company and been rebranded.  The whole shop is in the basement - but it’s quite open and visible from the street - so again don’t go here first if you’re getting used to whole gay sex shop lark. A lot of the store is given over to clothing, but they have a decent amount of sex objects, including some more extreme items. However quite a lot of their objects are kept in glass cabinets, which may keep out shoplifters, but isn’t really helpful for potential buyers. They also have a urinal on full display. And maybe taking a leaf out of the current fad for bike shops to have a cafe, they also have a proper coffee machine - although i wasn’t offered one during my relatively short visit! The shop is located in an area with lots of offices, and it felt slightly odd visiting it at 5pm - but i’m sure at other times it would be fine!

One shop that it included in Amex Shop Small is Fetch in Clapham High St - but sadly I haven’t yet managed to check it out.  I’ll update this post if I manage to do so before Amex Shop Small finishes.

Another place that’s included in Amex SS is Gay’s the Word on Marchmond Street, north of Russell Sq tube station.  It’s a fairly small, and a little squashed book shop aimed at gay people.

One place that I visited last year was Harmony, who have branches on both Oxford St and Charing Cross Road. I found the shop pretty grim - it seemed to be aimed at the hen party, jokey side of the customer base.

Hopefully something here will be useful.  Let me know if there are any others that I should go and take a look at.

changed his mind

it was a common enough steam room situation ... a few different guys ... some interested in others ... who were interested in others ...

and nothing much happened !

in the end it was just me and another guy that i see there from time to time ... a friend refers to him as the staring guy

and we were both horny ... so we started to get off ... but the staring guy seemed to change his mind ...

however i was past the point of no return ... so he couldn't stop me !

i made sure that my cumshot didn't hit him ... but he really needed to decide sooner if he didn't want it to happen

 

not quite right

before i left to go on holiday i had been chatting to this guy on Tinder ... and whilst i was away we arranged to meet up for a date a couple of days after i got back ...

i suggested an art gallery - as i find it useful to have something to ease the pressure / focus ... and it can be interesting to hear their take on the art ...

in theory i should have found this guy appealing ... he was relatively attractive, had beautifully smooth skin, was tall and slim ... but for some reason it just didn't work

i was fairly sure straight away that it wasn't going to work ... but persevered ... and even went for a coffee with him afterwards ... but i just couldn't get excited

he was probably a bit camper than i usually go for ... and a little younger ... and didn't really have very much interesting to say ...

and i disagreed with his taste in art ... but then i disagree with many people !

  

first time back

after a few weeks away, it's always good to get home ... and enjoy the gym chain that i'm a member of !

the first couple of steam room visits that i made didn't produce any results ...

but on the third occasion i came up trumps (with a small T)

it wasn't the most exciting encounter ever (i seem to say that a lot recently) - but it was still enjoyable

good to be home.

 

office building

after a couple of weeks on holiday with a friend ... i was really in the need for some action !

after my friend left i was travelling on my own ... and whilst a couple of opportunities presented themsleves, they didn't quite work out

then a guy suggested coming to his office building !

it was late at night, and he promised that we wouldn't get interrupted ... so i agreed

he let me in, and we walked past his desk, and to a gym area on the same floor !

before long he was sucking me off ... and i was giving him verbal abuse ... which is what he wanted !!

he seemed to enjoy it ... and i definitely did, as i produced a pretty impressive load for him

afterwards he thanked me on Grindr ... which is always a good sign of a job well done !

 

a repeat encounter

just a few days after meeting the guy who wanted me to cum inside him ... we met up again ...

it was the night before i was heading off on holiday ... so i didn't have much time ...

he wanted me to go over to his place ... and since he lived fairly closeby, i did ...

i often enjoy visiting different places - i guess i'm nosey to see how other guys live ...

this place wasn't very attractive ... and the guy hadn't improved over the last encounter either !

it wasn't a great time ... but at least i got to unload before heading off on holiday !!

 

come inside

i had a guy over to my place who was odd !

his Grindr messages were so insistent that i almost cancelled ... as he came across as a weirdo

however when he arrived over (he lives nearby) he seemed fairly normal !

he was keen to bottom ... and i was happy to facilitate ... but he really wanted me to cum whilst inside him (using condom) ...

but for some reason it wasn't happening ... maybe i didn't find him attractive enough, i'm not sure why ...

we both produce decent sized loads ... but i did feel a bit like i let him down !

Five in the steam

usually steam room encounters involve a couple of gay guys waiting for the straight guy to leave ...

althought there's the notable exception of the notorious gym steam room ... but that's unusual ...

however, i was recently in a (non notorious) steam room ... and there were five guys there all up for fun ...

i don't remember it being a particularly good encounter ... but it's always fun to see lots of other hard dicks !

 

steam snog

steam room encounters at the gym are often fairly transactional / rushed / unsensuous affairs ...

but i recently had a fairly pleasant encounter that included a snog ...

the only trouble was that he didn't taste so good ... so i couldn't continue it for too long ...

but it definitely added to the volume that i produced !

 

Hitting solid

As you may have noticed ... i've been very slack updating my blog of late ... so the next half dozen posts are written from notes that i scribbled down (electronically speaking) at the time of the encounter ... so apologies for the vagueness as i finally flesh them out ... so to speak ...


I had a guy over to my place ... nice enough guy ... and once we got naked, he seemed keen for me to play with his ass ...

the trouble was that it wasn't long before i hit something fairly substantial !

i'm not too precious about these things ... i accept that if you play with an ass, your fingers won't come out smelling like roses ... but this was a big item ...

maybe he wasn't expecting to get fingered ... or maybe he just didn't care ... either way, not the most enjoyable of events !

 

wash it off

i usually enter the steam room with some body lotion in my hand (which my gyms provide) ... to more easily work myself into a rigid state ...

the other day i had just arrived in the steam ... found it empty ... and excited myself ... when a bloke came in who was clearly up for some action ...

after playing with my equipment he suggested that i go and wash off the lotion, so he could suck me ...

i'm always happy to be sucked ... so i agreed to his proposal

when i arrived back into the steam a few minutes later ... the prospective sucker was still alone ... so i didn't even bother sitting down - just went straight over and let him at it ...

he started off by examining my dick ... presumably to check for obvious signs of disease !  thankfully he didn't find any, so he admitted it to his mouth ...

it wasn't the best BJ ever - not enough suction for me - but it was reasonably good ...

he made it clear that he didn't want me to cum in his mouth ... and as he got closer ... he stood up and wanted to kiss me ...

he wanted to see me cum first ... and as soon as i started ... he followed !

not the most attractive bloke ever - but an enjoyable experience nonetheless.

 

dripping

i was in one of my regular gym steam rooms the other day ... it was nearly closing, which can be a frustrating time, as lots of straight guys use the facilities !

there was a beautiful guy in one corner, who looked like he might be gay but shy ... a couple of straight guys ... and in walked a guy who spent his whole time looking at the other occupants - so definitely gay !

a while later, i ended up in the sauna with the definitely gay guy ... but as i've written before, non regulars don't realise that the sauna glass pattern makes it hard to see in from outside ... so you can get away with much more than you realise !

this guy didn't want to get himself off ... but he seemed happy for me to ... and i asked him if he wanted me to shoot on him (as he stood looking out with his ass facing me) ...

a couple of seconds after he confirmed he wanted it ... i was unloading a few day's worth of cum all over him ... watching it drip down his ass !

 

steam room assignation

i saw a guy on Grindr that looked hot ... so i messaged him ... and it turned out that he knew me ... from years ago !

eventually i worked out who he was ... but we last met almost six years ago ... so i didn't feel too bad about not remembering him !!

he seemed to be interested in a date ... but i wasn't sure about that ... so i suggested meeting up in the gym - as that was how we had appeared on each other's Grindr listings !

we agreed timings ... and there was just one other guy in the steam when we got there ... but he soon left, so there was just the two of us ...

we had a bit of a chat ... and started to get horny ... but he seemed quite worried about getting caught ... which was quite funny since my last memory is of him trying to get me to expose myself in the street !  i guess we all change over the years ...

before too long we both shot our loads ... and showered (separately) ... and ended up back in the changing room ... and chatted a bit more.

he isn't quite as hot as he used to be, and he's put on a bit of weight.  maybe we can hook up again in the steam sometime though ...

 

Gloryhole

i often see Grindr profiles entreating users to visit their "private gloryhole" but i don't think i've ever actually visited one ...

and there's a residential street near my apartment where i've never had an encounter ... until the other day when i killed two birds with one stone !

after a disappointing visit to the gym steam room ... i decided to take this guy up on his offer ...

it didn't start well, as he didn't tell me which floor his apartment was on, and there were lots of doors ... but eventually i found it !

it looked like a rental property ... so it seems like he brought his makeshift gloryhole equipment with him !

i've often written that i mess around with guys in the steam that i don't really find attractive in the cold light of day ... because in the steam you can use your imagination and pretend they are better looking than they atually are ...

well i think the same holds true for gloryhole scenarios !

before i accepted my sexuality, i used to experiment with some "understall" activities - especially on my way home after drink was taken ...

but i don't think i've ever actually stuck my dick through a gloryhole ... under yes, but not through !

he was a pretty good sucker, and the "hole" was big enough that he could use his hand to play with my balls ... which was good

one problem was the material he used for his fake wall - it smelled a bit strange - sort of plastic like ... so i had to make an effort to keep my face away from it !

there was also the issue of it not being solid - so i had to use the sides of the doorway to get a grip, so that i could work up a thrusting rhythmn ...

eventually i figured it out ... and told him that a load was about to be delivered down his throat !

i'm not used to a guy who keeps sucking as i'm shooting - usually they open their mouths at that stage, as they don't want to swallow

but since this guy was eager to swallow, and he kept sucking ... and it felt weird - sort of uncomfortable but sort of good ... but as i reached the end of my ejaculation, i couldn't take it any more, so i pulled out

he seemed to enjoy the encounter, and said "cheers" as i was leaving !
 

nervous players

i worked out at one gym, but there hadn't been any action in the steam afterwards ...

later in the day i was near another gym in the chain i use ... and so i dropped in ...

the steam wasn't working properly, but the sauna was ...

it has a pattern on the glass, so guys walking past can't really see in, but from the inside it looks like they can ...

there was another (slightly older) guy in the sauna with me who obviously wasn't used to this ... and got really nervous each time a guy walked past ... which was often !

before long i was shooting my week's worth of cum on him ... and he shot his load in his towel ... not sure how much there was of it, but sadly i didn't get to see it

maybe next time he will be less nervous and will let me see !

 

Fiddles, shoots and leaves

the other day i had barely arrived in the steam when and was preparing my equipment to a state of readiness ... when the two other guys in the steam opened their towels and displaying their manhoods !

i don't need a second invitation ... so i accelerated preparations ... and caught up ...

within just a couple of minutes i was shooting my load ... and exiting the steam !

not the most exciting encounter ever, but definitely one of the most rapid

 

stand and deliver

i was in the notorious gym the other day ... it was fairly quiet ... but just enough guys around for some action to happen ...

before entering the steam, i'd used the toilets, and whilst washing my hands, noticed a cute guy having a shave ... and we had some eye contact ...

in the steam, a guy with a beautiful dick that i've seen in there before was clearly up for some fun ... but a non player was present, so nothing happened ...

a while later, the cute guy from earlier was there, so i sat down near him ... and before long he was unwrapping his towel, and gettting his dick out ...

since i'm only just over my recent bout of thrush, i thought it best not to have any genital contact ... so i stood over him ... with some leg to leg contact ... and just as he started to shoot ... i unloaded on him ... which he seemed to enjoy ... giving me a playful pinch of my ass !

 

thrush is back

just like last summer ... i thought it was gone ... but then in returned

same has happened this month ... after just a few short steam room visits ... it came back ..

so it's back to applying the ointment ... avoiding the steam room ... and no encounters :(

 

slobbery and clumsy

it was late, and i was a bit tired after a gym session ... but after a quick bite to eat, i felt i had the energy for some fun ... with a guy who i'd been in contact with earlier ...

i went straight up to his hotel bedroom ... and as often happens, he was heavier than his photos !

we had agreed that i would play with him whilst he had a bath ... which was fun ...

his dick seemed like an average size whilst he was in the water but once he was on dry land it seemed quite a bit smaller

as soemtimes happens with uncut guys who don't have a lot of experience, he was way too rough with my dick ... and then kept suggesting it was my sensitivity rather than his roughness !

unfortunately he was a really slobbery kisser - at one stage i had a pool of slobber on my face ... it felt like dealing with a slobbery canine

he also seemed unware of his weight / size ... early on he squashed my arm ... and later kneed me in the balls !

whilst i'm almost always up for post coital cuddles and chat ... this guy wanted to stop in the middle of our encounter and have a chat ... wtf ?

after a while i was approaching ejaculation readiness, but he wasn't sure whether he was going to achieve it - apparently due to his tiredness ... but he did

my cumshot was pretty respectable - especially considering i wasn't hugely turned on by this guy, and considering i'd had a wank earlier than afternoon

 

another couple in the steam

i've written before about a steam room encounter where it transpired that the guys getting it on were actually a couple ...

the other day i was in a different gym steam room ... and it started off with a guy sitting down beside me and playing with his beautiful long foreskin ... but nothing happened between us ...

he left ... and another guy came in ... and started playing with his own dick ... but not mine !

i noticed that the two of them both had wedding rings on ... and i presumed that they were "straight" ... as there was a third guy in the corner with a wedding ring who kept starting at our dicks but not doing much - the classic sign of a closeted guy !!

but whilst taking a break from the steam ... i saw the two brazen guys sitting right beside each other outside the steam room chatting away.  straight guys don't sit on top of each other like that !

they seemed more interested in the overweight closeted guy ... so i didn't actually get off with them ... but an interesting way for a couple to spend their evening out

 

three in the steam

i'd seen this fit (slightly older) guy on the gym floor whilst i was exercising ... he was looking around enough that i assumed he was gay ...

and then he arrived into the steam room and looked at me that it was obvious he was gay !

we started to enjoy each other ... but another guy came in ... and the asian guy left

the other guy looked like he was up for it ... and was quite small ... so i assumed his member would be in proportion ... it wasn't !!

the steam was so hot that we couldn't spend long in there ... but eventually the three of us were there ... and whilst we didn't interact at the same time ... it was still fun

before long i shot my load on the smaller guy ... who seemed to enjoy it

 

different smelly

i was about to go to bed, and checked Grindr ... and a guy nearby contacted me ... and wanted to come over ...

he sent a Snapchat style photo - where half his face was obscured - seriously, wtf ?!

i got him to send a normal photo, and he looked ok, so agreed for him to come over for a quick one ...

he seemed nice enough ... and we were soon getting naked ... the trouble was that he must have been eating a serious amount of spicy food ... as his skin smelt

i love lots of skin on skin action ... and i love the smell of men ... but i just couldn't take it with this guy - i had to keep my nose away from him

it made me wonder what i smelt of ... and it reminded me of a recent encounter with a guy who just smelt unpleasant

he brought poppers that he used ... and at one point i had my fingers in his ass, whilst he inhaled. it was the first time i've ever felt an asshole relax ... made me want to take advantage ... but we didn't have time

we had a decent climax ... i came first and as it had been a few days, and since i was turned on by this guy ... there was quite a bit of it

his load was much more restrained - but pleasant enough !

we chatted a little after - he says he comes to london quite often ...

 

Curacao

one of my (straight) mates reckons that i should have kept a list of the nationalities of all the different guys that i've hooked up with !

the other day i got my "Curacao" flag !!

he was keen to come over, despite being nearly half an hour away.  we had tried to meet the previous day, but he had fallen asleep, and then i had better things to do than wait around for him.

the previous day he'd said that he was high (which was part of the reason i didn't mind not meeting him) ... but i didn't realise that he was still high when he came over ... big mistake !

whilst he was a nice looking guy - a bit heavier than his photos ... it turned out that he wasn't really interested in getting off

he said that i seemed very "cum focused" ... which was an interesting observation ... but then i suspect most guys are !

he seemed more interested in slow action rather than rapid movements ... and he closed his eyes a lot of the time during our interactions.  after recent problems, i wore my underwear during the encounter - which as a strange experience

he more or less admitted that he has psychological issues ... telling me that he wasn't into black guys - despite him being half black himself ... and going through the reasons why he wasn't much into nationalities other than British / Scandinavians

it was a frustrating evening - which could have been good, but wasn't really

 

Thrush again

i wrote last summer about how i picked up Thrush ... although it wasn't clear whether i got it from a guy ... as when it returned a few weeks later, it was almost certainly from too much time in steam rooms (rather than from another guy)

it's August again, and i picked it up again ... and again it's not clear whether it was from my recent encounter with an awesome sucker ... or from too much time in steam rooms

one of my mates reckons it developed too soon after the sucking encounter to be from him

i remember the doctor i saw last summer (when i freaked out as i didn't know what it was) saying that some people pick it up very easily - they don't actually need direct contact with another person

after a few days of applying the left over ointment from last year, i was running low, so i went to the pharmacy to get some more ... and was about to use my loyalty card ... but thankfully decided against before i handed it over to the cashier !

thankfully i was able to wear very little clothing for a week to help stop my crotch getting too hot ... but it's still a nuisance / uncomfortable ... and gets in the way of hot summer fun

 

cemetery action

i had chatted to this guy on Squirt and we agreed to meet at a nearby cruising spot ... which is what Squirt is all about, if you didn't know !  he also gave me his Grindr profile details, so i could zero in on him when i arrived ...

i got to the cruising spot soon after the agreed time ... and was wandering along a path that seems to be popular (i'd never actually hooked up at this place), and saw a couple of guys react as if they'd just been caught

one of them left rapidly (with his bicycle) ... but one of them stayed ... and it was the guy i was due to meet !

we soon got down to business ... and he was one of the smoothest suckers i've ever had the pleasure to experience - he sucked like he didn't have any teeth !  but personally i prefer a bit more suction when i'm being sucked - so whilst not quite gold medal standard, definitely very pleasant

he seemed reluctant to get out his dick ... but eventually i persuaded him to, and it really was a thing of beauty.  he said that some guys complain that a member that big should be inserted into other places - but he is exclusively a btm ... however i like playing with large uncut dicks ... and most other types of dicks too !

he was very smiley and sweet ... but obviously dirty as hell ... in a good way ... and he eventually admitted that he had already sucked off the guy that i had earlier caught him with 

after a while we got disturbed by a guy ... but thankfully he kept on walking past us ...

but i realised that he hadn't gone very far ... and was behind a nearby tree watching us ... which was fine - i don't mind being watched ... and neither did the dirty minded sucker !

eventually i shot my load in the sucker's mouth ... which he seemed to enjoy ... although he spat it out (rather than swallow it) ... which was fine with me

sadly he didn't himself didn't shoot - i guess he was waiting for the right guy !
 

frustrating

i was back in the notorious steam room the other day ... and sat down beside a guy with such a beautiful uncut dick ... over the other side were two guys who were pleasuring each other ...

but then a straight guy came in ...

after some to-ing and fro-ing, i got my hands on the beautiful uncut dick again ... but he'd spent too long in the steam, and was too hot to shoot ...

he hung around the changing room afterwards, and seemed to wanted to be touched ... but there were too many straight guys (and staff) around for my liking !

a really frustrating evening ... without an ejaculation

 

hairy and smelly

i was in one of my regular gyms the other day ... and a fairly empty profile messaged me on Grindr - just a few metres away ...

whilst i was exercising, i was looking around trying to work out who it was ...

it turned out to be a really hairy guy that i've chatted to before on Grindr ... but he must have created a new profile

hairy really isn't my type ... but we both ended up in the steam together ... and one thing led to another ...

but the trouble was that once he got close to me i could smell him ... and it wasn't pleasant ...

eventually i ejaculated ... but it's wasn't an impressive load ... which i blame on not being overly excited by the hairy, smelly guy !

 

constant cumming

i was back in the notorious gym steam room that has been such fertile hunting ground in the past ...

but this time it wasn't working out ... despite a few guys who were clearly up for it ... and it was time for for me to head off ...

i ended up in a shower cubicle opposite a (not very attractive0 guy from the steam who clearly also needed to cum ...

with our shower doors partly open ... i started shooting first ... and this seemed to push him over the edge ...

as he started cumming ... and cumming ... and cumming ... probably one of the biggest volume cumshots i've ever seen !


later on that day the length of time in the steam, the hot weather, and not drinking enough water seemed to catch up with me ... as i'm pretty sure i suffered (mild) dehydration symptoms !

 

hot weather guys

with the heat wave that London is currently experiencing ... i've noticed something ...

new profiles have started appearing on Grindr - they have very little info (classic sign of closeted guys) ... and some of them are specifically not into kissing (another sign of a guy who isn't comfortable with other guys)

it's also noticeable in the steam rooms ... there are guys that seem so horny ... but really nervous ... and not just the usual newbies ...

i'm guessing that the heat is driving guys who are a little bit bisexual towards men, just to express their pent up sexual energy !

i also wonder whether some of them are attached gay guys who are normally monogamous, but who need another outlet ...

 

locked in

i've heard many excuses for a guy arriving late to a hook-up ... but this was a novel one - the bloke said that he couldn't get out of his flat, as it had been double locked from the outside !

luckily i wasn't in a rush, and was able to wait for him ... although i sort of regret doing so !!

his height / weight stats sounded ok ... but once he took off his t-shirt, it was clear that he had lied - he was considerably over weight ...

he said afterwards that he was out - but he didn't really seem to know what he was doing ... maybe he was just young and inexperienced, but i wondered if he was attached and feeling guilty !

despite not being that turned on my him ... i was so horny after a few days without cumming ... that i ended up shooting over his shoulder ... and producing a decent volume.

his ejaculation wasn't very impressive ... so i guess i didn't really turn him on !

 

one cumshot

and it wasn't mine !


in the gym i'd noticed an older guy who kept looking at me ... but he a bit heavier than i normally go for, so i wasn't really interested ...

in the steam room later, i ended up beside him ... but the guy on the other side, was a gay guy who doesn't get involved in any action ... so ends up blocking it for the rest of us - thanks !

evenually the cock blocker left ... and the only other guy was in the far corner ... but he had is leg positioned to obscure his crotch ... so nothing happening on that side ...

eventually the corner guy left and it was just me and the heavier guy ... but in the steam room, we all look better ... and he had a beautiful uncut cock ... which i started playing with ...

i thought he might be getting close ... but a straight guy entered ...


later on, the guy in the corner was back ... and it was just him and me ... and it turned out that he was horny too !

and before long he moved his non wanking hand to catch his cum ... with flowed out of his dick

i do like seeing a cumshot (even when it's a cum flow) ... but before i had a chance to express my pleasure ... somebody else came in ...

  

foot fetishist

i've written before about how i get frustrated by guys in the steam room who want action without any physical contact ...

this time was in another of my regular gyms ... and it was another guy who regularly avoids physical contact ...

but this time he seemed to be taking an interest in the guy who featured in the recent shower scene !

there was a guy in the corner lying down, who didn't seem interested ... but the guy from the shower scene seemed interested in him ... and after a while, started playing with his feet ...

i'd encountered a foot fetishist before ... but i had no idea that the guy from the shower scene (who i've interacted with before) was into feet

before too long, the normally non touching guy had shot over the shower scene guy and left

i was getting close, and went over to the shower scene guy, who used his spare hand to encourage me to shoot ... which i did ... and watched it bounce off him ... which he semed to enjoy !

i then left the two of them to their foot based enjoyment

 

movie date

i'd chatted to this guy on Tindr, and he seemed nice enough ... and we had chatted about films ... so we agreed to meet and go to see Adrift in a cinema near where i live

we met at the tube station, and he was a bit smaller than i had expected

we had some time before the film started, and he didn't know the area, so i brought him on a quick walk around ... just so he got something out of his trip, as i suspected i wouldn't be bringing him home !

we talked about the previous day, which had been London Pride ... and he mentioned that he'd been supposed to meet a guy ... but it had gone wrong, and the guy had suddenly stopped communicating

whilst i can appreciate how annoying this is, after my recent experience ... it really isn't the sort of thing that you discuss on a first date - it didn't make him seem very attractive / desirable

he seemed a reasonably interesting guy ... but a bit wet !

we bid farewell after the movie ... and we exchanged courtesy text messages afterwards

 

late night session

i had chatted to this guy a week earlier ... but he messaged me again just as i was about to go to bed ... and was looking for a long session

he looked like a nice enough guy that i didn't want to pass up the opportunity, even though i was a bit tired

he arrived over a while later ... and he was that rare example of a guy who is significantly better in the flesh than in his photos !

he had such beautiful skin - smooth and dark ... lovely natural muscles ... great lips, which he put to good use ... and a very pleasant dick

we got down to work fairly quickly ... and it started off a bit awkward ... but we found a rhythmn after a while ...

and before too long he actually shot his load ... and i wasn't too far behind ... and i actually shot on him whilst kissing him - it's not often that i actually want to kiss a guy as i'm cumming

i've written before about how i like guys who like cum ... and this was definitely one of them - he didn't bother wiping up, despite having both his own load, and my considerable load all over him !

we lay back exhuasted after our exertions ... and chatted ...

but before long we were both getting hard again ... and this time he seemed particularly keen on sucking me ... and he actually ended up cumming with my dick in his mouth ... which was a bit unnerving, as i worried that his jaw might clamp as he shot - it didn't !  i shot another load on him

we chatted some more ... and he is clearly well aware of just how beautiful he is ... but he doesn't seem overly arrogant about it ... although at 4am, maybe my judgement was off

we showered together before he left - i really enjoy getting soapy with a hot guy ... not sure whether pre sex or post sex showers are better ... both are great

 

don't cum on me

i was in the steam room the other day ... and there was an overweight guy ... but i was feeling horny, and he was obviously up for it ...

after some interaction ... i was standing beside him ... and told him that i was getting close ...

but he said "don't cum on me" ... which made me lose interest ... so i left the steam.

a while later we were both back there, and he asked if i was actually interested in cumming ... or only if i shot on him ...

then he asked where i was from ... and he seemed a bit more relaxed about the idea of me shooting on him !

so i did

 

false cumming

i was in the steam room the other day, with a beautiful guy ... with an even more beautiful dick ... but there was a guy in shorts in the corner ... so nothing was happening ...

a while later, the guy in shorts was gone ... but there was an older guy in the other corner, and it wasn't clear whether he was up for it ...

eventually i saw the older guy's dick start to twitch, so i knew we were good to go ...

the beautiful guy with the beautiful dick beside me didn't make any move for physical contact ... but after a bit, i leant over and started playing with his rock hard nipples !

he was already moaning before i started touching him ... so i though he was getting pretty close ...

the older guy in the corner had already shot his load, and was packing up to leave ...

so i thought i better get a move on !

i started to shoot ... and after the first couple of spurts, the older guy opened the steam room door and left ... with me still pulsating, right in front of the door !   it's not the first time this has happened to me - but it doesn't make it any more acceptable

sadly the beautiful guy with the beautiful dick didn't shoot his load ... next time i need to do more work on him to get him off !

 

too urgent

i had chatted with this guy ages ago ... but he was keen on barebacking, and i'm not ... so i didn't meet him

recently he contacted me again ... and he look so cute in his photos ... that i decided he was worth a go !

he was staying around the corner from where a friend of mine lives - so there was the added risk of bumping into my mate, and having to explain that i was there for a shag !

when i got there he was keen to get down to business straight away ... and he had an unattractive urgency that reduced the sexiness of the encounter ...

whilst he had a great body, and a really beautiful dick ... i realised as we progressed that he was quite a bit older than his photos ... and somehow less innocent looking !

he also really squeezed my dick when i was inside him - i don't think i've ever experienced quite so much compression before - and it was a bit too much ... he's clearly developed those muscles

he wanted me to cum on his face ... and i was happy to oblige ... but sadly he didn't ejaculate

he texted afterwards to thank me ... and promised to shoot next time ... but i don't think i will be going back

 

false starts

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Ghosted

Urban Dictionary defines it as: When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they're dating, with zero warning or notice before hand.

I'm not sure if seeing a guy three times - with loads of texting in between counts ... but it still feels shitty.

I had arrived back into town after a weekend away on the Sunday, and already had plans to go to a show that evening with friends, and asked him if he wanted to come ... which he (understandably) declined

We talked about meeting up the next week, and he gave me a few days that he was free ... and I explained that I was trying to see a friend before he left the country ... and after soring out timings with GB, I replied later that day suggesting the next evening ...

The next day (the day I had suggested meeting) he then said he might have to work late ... and suggested we try another day ... but I already had plans which I couldn't move ...

I explained that I had tried to free up the other day, but hadn't been able to ... but to let me know if he was free another day ...

Silence ... silence ... silence

He had already starting initiating less text message chat ... so in some ways i'm not completely shocked ...

Even if he thought I wasn't making enough of an effort to make time for him ... or even if he guessed that i was a bit dubious about him having to "work late" ... ghosting is never acceptable

I read an interesting article about being ghosted ... and it mentions "Since you don't have friends in common or weren't introduced through some other channel, it's not the end of the world if you just drop off the face of the earth" ... but the odd thing is that we do have mutual friends, which we had discussed at length !

And whilst it's unlikely that we will bump into each other - it might happen.  It will be interesting to see how he behaves - or if he even acknowledges me !

At least I found out sooner rather than later that he's this sort of guy

 

Not the only Voyeur in the gym

i was in one of my regular gym steam rooms the other day ... and i guy a recognised from previous visits was there ... and clearly horny ...

after a bit i moved towards him ... but he moved away ... and i wasn't in the mood for a "no touching" guy ... so i left the steam and headed to the far end of the showers ...

where i found a shower cubicle with towels covering the clear glass section ... which is often a sign that two or more are gathered together for mutual enjoyment ...

doing a quick foot count ... i discovered that there were four feet in the cubicle !

i was pretty sure that one of them was a nice looking black guy that i've messed around with before - as i'd spotted him working out in the gym earlier, and he wasn't in the steam !

i thought the other might be a beautiful asian guy that i had also noticed in the gym earlier ... but i've never seen him either in the steam or in the showers ... but it was exciting to think it might be him ...

these guys took their time in the shower ... first of all they faced each other ... and then eventually they got into a standard penetration position ...

i really wanted to see who they were ... and i'd had enough time in the shower ... so i went to the steam, and sat where i could watch the shower cubicle comings and goings ...

which is when i realised that the previous guy in the steam had been doing exactly the same thing !

eventually one person emerged from the double cubicle ... and it turned out to be an older guy that i'd seen in the steam before - not the beautiful asian guy that i had hoped for !

quite a while later the other guy finished ... and it was the nice black guy that i had suspected ...

i really wanted to find out whether they had actually fucked ... but i couldn't bring myself to ask !

 

risk appetite

some recent articles / documentaries about the spectacular success of PreP in reducing HIV infections made me consider gay men's appetite for risk ... and whether we (on average) have a higher risk appetite than straight men ... and why that might be ?

obviously there are plenty of exceptions (i'm very careful) ... but thinking about the average person ...


gay men have more sex that straight men ... so does familiarity breed contempt when it comes to safety ?

gay men don't have families to think about ... so are we prepared to take more risks because we have less to lose ?

once you've taken the risk of coming out (and the possibility that your family / friends might reject you) ... and survived ... does your risk threshold get recalibrated to a higher plane ?

Ronnie Kray is supposed to have complained that his fellow gangsters went soft after they got married and spent too much time (in his opinion) with women.  since gay men tend to spend more of their time with men ... does that lead to gay men having a higher risk appetite than men who spend time with women ?


PreP seems to work (as much as it does) because gay men take it regularly when they are not in sexual positions ... where as condom usage requires interruption in the heat of the moment, with the chance of losing a sexual encounter

which would suggest that in the cold light of day, maybe our risk appetite isn't that different to straight guys ?

but once we get put into a sexual situation (especially if drugs are involved) ... our appetite for risky encounters is higher than straight guys ?

 

no hands

i usually try and only visit the steam room three times - with cooling off breaks / cold showers in between ... before giving up / shooting !

the other day i was in one of the most reliable local gyms - it has a male only jacuzzi, as well as male only steam and sauna - how much more cruisy do you get ?!

it was a friday afternoon (which is usually a fairly reliable time) but it was really quiet - not even many straight guys there

there was one hot guy that seemed like a possible cum buddy - but he was too nervous and thought it was "too risky"

but soon afterwards there was an overweight guy who was clearly up for it

i've written before about my guilt at getting off with a guy i don't fancy ... but this was my fifth and final visit to the steam for the day ... so it was now or never !

he moved over towards me, and started playing with my dick

at first i thought that his grip was too loose ... but he soon got going ... and before long i was getting close

he had a nice enough uncut dick that i was enjoying playing with - just that i couldn't look at him

there's something about the loss of control when a guy wanks you off that i really enjoy !

i didn't even watch my own cumshot (which i normally do) - the ectasy was so much - so i've no idea what size load i produced


afterwards he moved back over to the far corner ... and then started asking me if i was straight or bi or gay

maybe the fact that i had been looking away from him made him wonder

i was so exhausted that i had to sit an recover for a few minutes before thanking him and leaving !
 

selfish guy

i had seen this guy in the steam room plenty of times before ... and he hadn't seemed that keen on me ...

but this time he seemed a bit more interested ...

but it turned out that he was even more interested in getting me to watch the door whilst he had a wank

seriously - does anybody think they can get away with that sort of selfishness ?

luckily somebody else came in, so it was a good excuse for me to get out of there and leave that self centred idiot to himself

 

what counts as a date ?

a friend asked me round for dinner the other evening - but i couldn't go because i had a date ...

the next day my friend asked whether the date was worth missing out on dinner !

i told him it had been reasonably good ... and the sex wasn't bad either !!

my friend suggested that if we were having sex then it couldn't really be counted as a date ...

but i reckon that as long as you send some time outside (not public sex type thing) - preferably around other people ... even if you end up banging each others brains out ... it still counts as a date !

my friend wasn't so sure

 

how high is your sex drive

one of the things about myself that i've realised over the years ... is that i seem to have a higher sex drive that most of the guys that i've dated / gone out with

and the trouble with that is that it feels like it transfers some of hte power in the relationship to the other guy - if you're always up for it and they are limiting your access to it ... maybe this is what it feels like to be a man in a hetero relationship !

after finishing sex (on a third date) - i asked him how high is sex drive was ... to which he said "medium" ... which didn't really tell me very much

he asked me and i said medium / high ... as i'm sure that there are guys with a higher sex drive than me !

i really would prefer to go out with a guy who wanted as much sex as me ... maybe it would be strange !

and what if he wanted more sex than me - how would i cope with that ?!

 

3rd date

the day after he got back from holiday we had agreed to meet up ...

and after exchanging messages, he said he would come over to mine in the evening ...

after meeting him at the tube station - he seemed to want to go straight to my place ... but i persuaded him to go for some food first ...

once we got to my flat, it wasn't long until we were in my bedroom again ...

again the sex was reasonably good, without being amazing ... i noticed that he seemed to want to just lie on his back ... rather than anything more energetic ... which i don't find the best !

afterwards we had another good chat / cuddle ... before he headed off to catch a tube home

 

quick gym trip

sometimes i just go to the gym for a quick shower

which is what i was doing the other day in one of my local gyms ... before meeting a mate to see a movie ...

but there was a guy in the steam room that was obviously interested ... and when i stood near him he started playing with my junk !

it didn't take long before i was shooting my load on him - after giving him due warning that it was about to happen !!

but he never actually got hard during the encounter - i'm not sure if he just didn't find me attractive (but then why touch me) ... or whether he was high ... or maybe he just doesn't get hard ?

 

second date

so the guy that i'd been on a date with the previous week was about to go on holiday ... and he contacted me to suggest meeting up the day after he got back from holiday ...

then i suggested meeting up that evening ... and he agreed !

it felt a bit like he didn't want to appear too keen ... but maybe i'm over-analysing !

we agreed to meet near my place ... which i thought was a clear signal that i wanted to get naked with him ... and when i met him at the station we exchanged a quick kiss on the footpath ... after our failure to kiss at the end of the first date

i brought us for a bit of a walk to the river ... and we had a drink sitting outside the bar ...

and afterwards continued on down the river bank a little ... before i suggested going back to my place ... which he agreed to ...

and before long we were in my bedroom !

the sex was reasonably good ... not amazing.  and we chatted and cuddled for plenty of time afterwards, which is always a good sign

 

kiss at the end of a date ?

i was on a date recently ... we went to a cafe on top of an art gallery ... and then for a walk across the city ...

it was all very enjoyable - he seems like a nice guy ... and he's definitely an attractive guy ...

but as we were saying goodbye ... i thought he was moving in for a kiss ... but i moved ... and then he didn't seem interested in a kiss !

if i hadn't moved to begin with ... it would probably have happened

then you begin to wonder if he's actually interested ...

 

older than photos

i was chatting to a guy online, and he looked really cute

but when i arrived over to his place, he was quite a bit older

i nearly left straight away ... but i was feeling horny ... so stayed !

it was quite a good session ... but his english wasn't the best ... which was surprising since he's lived here for over 10 years

we both shot our loads ... and said goodbye ... and he suggested meeting again ...


he has contacted me a couple of times on Grindr since then ... but i'm not really that keen

 

there were four in the steam

i was back in the steam room where i had shot recently ...

and the "no touching" guy was there again ... and a couple of other guys ... and we were all spread out ...

three of us were clearly up for it ... but there was a beautiful black guy in the corner that wasn't making any obvious signs ...

eventually he started adjusting himself ... and that was enough for proceedings to kick off !

but nobody moved closer to each other ...

so we eventually all shot our loads without any contact at all

usually four guys shooting is really hot ... but the lack of physical contact reduced the horniness considerably

 

endless sucking

i was on holiday recently in europe ... and feeling horny !

a nearby guy was looking to suck ... and whilst i was probably looking for more ... i don't mind a fellatio session from time to time ...

getting into his apartment block became an ordeal - eventually he had to come down and let me in manually so to speak ... it turned out it was an AirBnB rental, so maybe he hadn't figured it out properly ...

he looked a bit older than his profile claimed ... or maybe he had just spent too much time in the sun which had aged his skin ...

but he turned out to be really good at sucking ... and he really was keen to keep going for a long time !

eventually it was time for me to shoot ... and since the sitting room floor was easy to clean - he was happy for me to cum over it ... and boy did i cum !  probably one of my most far reaching ejaculations ever !!

he seemed happy with it

 

Everybody's Talking about Jamie - musical

with GB about to leave the country for a month, we were trying to arrange a night out ... and i suggested a relatively new musical called Everybody's Talking about Jamie

the strapline "a new musical for today" annoyed me when the adverts first appeared - it seemed rather meaningless ... and i feared that the musical might be a bit empty too !  but it had recevied fairly good reviews, and was one of the few musicals i hadn't already seen ...

i got tickets for us in the Dress Circle - having failed in the online lottery for front row tickets - but at least we weren't missing out on any close up nudity !

some of the songs in the first half felt a bit weak - but the second half songs were quite a bit better - without ever being "amazing"

the acting was pretty good, and i particularly liked Shobna Gulati - such an impressive transition from Coronation Street

the dancing was great fun at times, and i thought Marvyn Charles was the best - such graceful, natural movement

the ending was probably the best i've seen in the West End for years - a different take on the standard bow / encore / bow routine.  almost all the audience were on their feet.

ultimately it did feel to me a bit like it was jumping on the Billy Elliot / Kinky Boots bandwagon ... and that worry i had about the fatuous tagline presaging an empty script wasn't wholly misplaced !

if you get a decent price (as we did after failing in the lottery) - then i would recommend this musical.  but i personally wouldn't want to pay full price


if you can't make it to London anytime soon - it will also be playing in lots of cinemas on 5th July, and some more on 6th July, 15th July and finally on 16th July

 

opposite

when action is happening in the gym ... the steam room is better than the showers ... and interactive is better than separate ... and sometimes you get what you want ... but sometimes you don't ...

this was the latter ...

the steam room was too busy with straight guys ... so we ended up in opposite shower cubicles ... with the doors open ... watching each other shoot our loads

 

sweaty

at the end of my recent holiday in Asia ... i was chatting to a guy who was keen to meet up ... and for me to visit his place

he turned out to be a bit heavier that his photos - but not too much

when we got down to action, he got quite sweaty - which was sort of fun, as it suggests that he was really turned on ... or just unfit !

eventually he shot a load ... but it wasn't very big ... but mine made up for it !

 

a canadian

whilst still on holiday in Asia recently ... i got chatting to a young canadian guy who was also on holiday there ... and was keen to meet up ...

the only trouble was that the place where i was staying was quite small, so i was concerned about walking past reception with a random guy !

eventually we had to risk it - and it turned out to be fine - they didn't say anything to us

this guy was ethnically asian, and had beautifully smooth skin - but i think had some serious acne at some stage, as he had some big marks

we seemed to enjoy each other ... and both had respectably sized expressions of our enjoyment

 

strange hair

i was on holiday in asia recently and was contacted by an Italian guy who was living there ... but who wasn't sexually attracted to asian guys

whilst i'm very attracted to asian guys ... i'm also attracted to european guys ... and this guy seemed cute ... so we agreed to meet up and go back to his place

it turned out that he was a bit smelly - which wasn't great ... and probably meant i wasn't as turned on and as attentive to him as i might otherwise have been

but we did eventually both get off

he also had slightly odd hair - thin, but stringy !

 

don't look up

i've written before that sometimes i get it on with guys in the steam room who i don't actually find attractive

this guy was a bit older and heavier than i find attractive ... but i was so horny ... that i just concentrated on his dick ...

shot my load ... and got out of there

 

dangerously blatant

sometimes guys in gym steam rooms have no sense of the risk involved

i don't know if they are high ... or visitors, so don't have to worry about losing their membership ... or just don't care about offending straight guys ... or they are just stupid

this bloke was so blatant about being horny ... that i was almost trying to cover him up in case somebody walked in on us

we both shot our loads standing up in the middle of the steam room

hopefully he won't be back

 

right on time

i've written before about how i try not to leave it until just before closing

but it happened again recently ... in the notorious steam room ...

i had just shot my load ... and the tannoy announced that the facilities were closing

hot sensation !

 

no touching

finally the refurbshed steam room in one of my local gyms has re-opened ... so i don't have to use the sauna for action !

there was a hot guy there who wanted to play with himself, but didn't want to be touched ... which is always a shame !

normally i try and reserve my cumshots for encounters ... but that morning i had been obliged to wank off at home alone ... but despite that, i was so horned up by this guy that it didn't take me long to shoot again

but he was too slow, and we got interrupted - shame i didn't get to see him cum

 

down below

i was in a gym recently where the steam room is mixed, but the sauna is male only ... but i'm not really a big fan of sauna action - i find steam rooms more relaxing for man on man action

but we have to make the best with what we are given !

it was hard to tell exactly who was up for action ... but eventually two guys left who weren't sure ... and it was just me and one guy on the level below who was definitely up for it ...

before long i was spraying my load ... and watching it land on him

i still prefer steam rooms !

 

unfeasibly large

i'm not a size queen - i enjoy all sorts of dick

but sometimes it is fun to handle a monster

but handling is about the only thing i can actually do with it !

i do like feeling the weight of a big one - but they really are so impractical

 

too much teeth

it's always disappointing when the best looking guy leaves the steam room ...

and you're left with an older guy ... but you're still feeling horny from the good looking guy !

the older guy really wanted to suck me off ... but his teeth kept getting in the way

eventually i shot my load on him ... and he shot his

not a great encounter.

 

five minutes left

i usually try and get into the steam room a reasonable amount of time before the gym closes ... partly so that there isn't pressure to perform ... and partly because the steam room can fill up with straight guys just before closing !

on this occasion i was running a bit late ... and the announcement was made that the facilities would be closing in five minutes ...

there was only one other guy there, and knew that we needed to get a move on ... and next thing he's on his knees sucking my dick

i was afraid that my recent use of body lotion might put him off ... but he didn't seem to mind !

i warned him that i was getting close ... so he stopped sucking ... and got me to shoot my load on him

 

w1a sounding bloke

there's an excellent comedy about the BBC on the BBC called W1A ... and one of the characters, Will Humphries, has a sweet posh voice ...

and i was in one of my regular steam rooms recently ... and there was a guy with exactly the same voice / accent as this character !

it clearly wasn't him, but it was quite bizarre !

he seemed keen to have some fun ... but sadly i didn't manage to get him to shoot his load

 

mixed steam

most of the gyms where i enjoy steam room encounters have male only facilities

i sometimes go to a particular gym that has a mixed steam room which isn't usually very busy ... and where i have only ever once had fun with a guy ... that i brought with me !

i was back in that steam room again recently ... and there was just one other guy ... who was clearly up for something ... and it was very steamy, so we weren't being too risky ...

i ended up shooting my load into his hairy chest !

i will still think of my FWB whenever i'm in this steam room

 

walk and cum

sometimes when action isn't possible in the steam room ... i occasionally engage a bloke in the showers

this guy had such a beautiful and large dick, that i was so horny ... that i ended up taking the risky shower option !

i was standing in the corridor between the rows of showers (sort of drying myself off) ... and he was attending to both of our dicks (whilst standing in his cubicle)

just as i started to shoot ... another bloke arrived into the showers ... so i had to leave ...

but i was still shooting my load !

 

milking

usually in the steam room (and in general) i'm the one who is more keen on shooting my load ...

but the other day i was in the steam room ... and playing with a guy ... and i managed to coax a load out of him ... but i wasn't actually that bothered about getting myself off

i find there's something very satisfying about wanking off a guy without him actually touching himself !

 

refurbished sauna

one of my local gyms has been undergoing a refurbishment - so the steam room has been out of action for months

the men's sauna recently re-opened ... and i found myself in there the other day with another horny bloke ... and before long we were both exploding in horniness !

now if only they would finish refurbishing the steam room too ...

 

Another proper date

One of the problems with Tindr for gay men, is that it doesn't give any clues about what sexual preferences a guy has !

I wasn't sure about meeting up with this guy ... but then i saw his Manhunt profile, and I knew that I really did want to meet him !!

we met up at quite short notice - which i find is better than guys who will only plan things weeks in advance

he seemed a bit heavier than his photos, but it was a bit hard to tell as the bar was quite dark, and his jumper was a bit loose

he was such an easy guy to chat to, and was interesting, and seemed really nice ... but there wasn't really any immediate sexual urgency

i might try seeing him again, and finding out whether that sexual spark appears with time ...

 

rapid encounter

i've written before about the notorious gym steam room that i sometimes visit ...

i was back there again their recently ... and whilst sometimes the encounters can be quite slow - this steam room tends to go in cycles of very steamy (good) and almost no steam (bad) ... this was was quite the opposite

very rapidly i had shot my load (with a guy that i've seen there before), and was out of there

i spotted the guy afterwards on Grindr, and we had a quick chat ... which is slightly bizarre !

 

Metacarpal deep

i've written before about being in the steam room and burying my finger in a guy's ass

this time it happened in the gym showers ... the guy in the cubicle beside me seemed keen to have his ass played with ... so i did !

sadly neither of us actually shot

  

Airport fun

the last time i had an encounter at an airport was four and a half years ago !

this time my flight had been cancelled, so i was waiting quite a long time for the next one ... and the devil makes work for idle hands, as they say ... in my case the devil was dating apps !

we agreed to meet in a quiet toilet near the far end of the terminal ...

he had quite a small dick, and he seemed too nervous to shoot his load ... but that didn't stop me !

we chatted online afterwards and it turns out that he is married to a woman, and that he only does such things when he's away from home.

we were on the same flight back to London, but at opposite ends of the plane - so we didn't bump into each other again

brief threesome

i'm catching up on posting about old encounters ... i try and write a few notes soon after each encounter, which i write up into a proper post later ...

all i wrote about this encounter was "brief threesome" and that it happened in the gym ... and i'm struggling to remember what happened ... so i guess it must have been very brief !

but hey, i guess brief is better than not at all !!

 

an annoying date

i'd chatted to this guy on and off before ... but we finally agreed to meet up for a date

the trouble was that he barely looked like his photos - i reckon the pictures that he used must be about 10 years old

who in their right mind thinks that is ok ?

we went for a little walk - he wasn't even that interesting ... but if he had looked like his pictures, he would have been worth a shag !

what  a waste of time.

  

unpleasant quickie

i'd seen this guy on Grindr in my area for a while ... and i think i'd seen him in the street as well.

he was keen to meet up, and i was feeling horny, so we agreed that he would come over to my place

the trouble was that he was smelly ... i wonder if he was high, as he doesn't look like the sort that would normally smell

he started using a phrase repeatedly "i'm such a pussy boi" ... which i didn't find very appealing

once i started touching his ass hole - he shot quite quickly ... and i can almost always cum on demand ... so it was soon over

never again with this guy.

and you win some

having just had a bizarre experience with a guy who changed his mind after we go to his flat

i had another encounter ... again where i travelled to his place ...

but this one was so good that after the first explosion ... following by lots of cuddling ... i exploded again !

which i think is my first double cumshot in a single encounter since the guy i used to date !!
 

you lose some

i chatted to this guy on Grindr - we agreed that he would host

he was a bit vague about where to meet ... but eventually we met outside his apartment block

we got inside his flat ...

but he suddenly said that his landlord might be coming round, so we couldn't do anything

wtf ?!

a proper date

i think we first chatted on the app Happn

we met in a pub that i've been to before - near enough to my flat, in case we wanted to go back afterwards !

he was reasonably attractive - not quite as good as his pics

he seemed like a nice enough guy - a bit wet though !

i sort of got the impression that he was troubled by something ... he lived with his brother ... not sure if he was in contact with his parents ... he seemed a bit sorrowful

i got the impression he wasn't that comfortable with being gay ... he said that he never showed affection in public

we chatted a little online afterwards - he wasn't sure if he was interested in seeing me again - so i didn't ask twice !

not too high to cum

it had been a frustrating few days ... lots of near misses in various gym steam rooms ... with some seriously hot January newbies ...

eventually i was back in one of my regular gyms ... and a guy was in the steam in his speedos ... but making it obvious that he was up for it ... but there kept being non players around ...

we ended up in opposite shower cubicles ... and although i prefer touching rather than watching ... i was too horny to wait ...

the other guy had been there since i started my workout ... and he wasn't hard in the steam ... so i assumed he must be high ... and probably wouldn't actually be shooting ... but i was wrong ... and before long he was producing a reasonable amount of cum ... with his shower cubicle door open ...

seeing a cumshot almost always pushed me over the edge ... and within seconds i was firing off a load onto the wall of my cubicle ...

i didn't see my own cumshot (too busy looking at the other guy) ... but judging my his shocked reaction (and how far up the wall i had to clean) ... i'm guessing that the days of waiting resulted in a big 'un !

 

blocked by a rent boy ... almost

this is the same rent boy that i hooked up with (in a steam room) a few months ago !

i was in the steam room ... and there were five (including me) guys up for fun ... mostly a bit older ... but one really nice looking guy ... and me !

the rent boy was sitting in the corner, clearly not up for it ... but if you're gay, and five other gay guys are trying to wank off ... wouldn't you fake it, just to let them enjoy themsleves in peace ?!

not this guy - he sat moodily in the corner, strenuously ignoring the rest of us !  what a selfish prick.

i was surprised how much it put me off my stroke.  probably not helped by the cute guy being a bit too far away to see him prorperly when the steam increased.

after a while i decided to take a break, had a quick shower to cool down, and had some water ... and luckily the rent boy / selfish prick left the steam room.

this time i was able to stand by the door, which helped protect the others from view ... and gave me a better view of the fit / cute guy.

before long i was shooting ... which seemed to push most of the others over the edge.  sadly the fit / cute guy didn't cum - possibly too new / nervous.

  

too hungover to cum

it had been a few days since i last shot a load ... and a couple of potential meets had dried up ... and the guy i met up with a few days previously had messaged me earlier that day ... so i thought i would try him again ...

the only trouble was that he had previously said he was "a bit tipsy" - which i presume meant high ... but the previous encounter was great, and he hadn't been too high.  by the afternoon, he said he'd got some sleep, but was very "hungover" !

he sent me his postcode ... and eventually gave me his house name ... and i was about to walk away ... but he finally gave me his flat number ... talk about blood from a stone !

even in a "hungover" state - he was still really hot ... especially in his trackie bottoms !

we went to his "spare bedroom" to continue our encounter - who in london has a spare room - who is this guy ?!

he didn't want the light on ... but i insisted - he was too hot not to look at ... but in retrospect, it was probably due to his "hangover" that he didn't want the light.

whilst i was getting condoms / lube out of my bag, i took a bit too long ... and it really killed the mood ... i'd never really had that problem before ... or maybe he was just too out of it ...

he kept saying that he was too hungover to cum ... but eventually i got him worked up enough that he shot an enormous load - probably more than the previous time we'd met ... and i followed soon after

maybe if we meet again, it can be when he's neither "tipsy" or "hungover" !

 

multi ethnic steam

one of the things i love about this city is the ethnic diversity - i really can't imagine living in a single race city - it would be so dull !

i was in the notorious steam room the other day ... and to my left was a guy who was part middle eastern ... to my right was a guy who was east asian ... and to his right was a black guy whose ethnic origin i couldn't quite work out ... but whose dick was beautiful !

the east asian guy to my right was clearly up for fun ... and he got the guy to his right going ... and i got the guy to my left going ...

the trouble with the high levels of steam is that you can't actually see when somebody cums ... and you can't make much noise, as you don't know for sure what's going on over the other side !

in other steam rooms i often cum standing up - often on another guy ... but in the notorious steam room i'm often sitting down ... and the trouble is that my cum ends up in my pubes ... and i spend half my shower trying to extract it ... and i don't always succeed !

#SteamRoomProblems

 

you might want to put a shirt on

after our encounter in the disabled toilet at his club ... the guy had kept in touch on Grindr ...

he seemed keen to meet again ... but i didn't want to go back to that toilet ... so i waited until his visitor was out ... and so we could meet up at his flat ...

he seems like a nice guy ... but the trouble is that i just don't get as turned on by overweight guys as i do by skinny guys ...

the difference in the size of my load with him compared to the size of my cumshot with the guy a few days previous was really significant.

i think i need to stop seeing him.

 

thanks for that

i was back in my usual gym steam room the other day ... there were some very hot guys there ... but some were too picky or shy ... so nothing much happened ...

until it was just a slightly older (more brazen) guy and myself ...

and we helped each other get off - unlike the previous guy - he had seriously sensitive nipples !

before long we both shot our loads ... and he said "thanks for that" before leaving the steam.

although he seemed to hang around the changing room for quite a while afterwards ...

 

too hot ... or too high ?

i was back in the notorious gym steam room that i've written about a couple of times before ...

as i entered the steam was so thick that i couldn't see who was there ... but i could hear one guy making slight groaning sounds ... so i headed for him ...

he turned out to be reasonably young and cute ... but when i got my hands on his goods ... he wasn't actually hard ...

despite our best efforts (note to self - if he has small nipples, he probably doesn't like nipple play) ... we couldn't get him off ...

he almost apologised saying "it's too hot" ... but i do wonder if he was actually high !

needless to say that wasn't a problem for me ...

 

Strangers in Between play

I saw the australian film Holding the Man a couple of years ago, and really liked it ... and recently went to see the australian play Strangers in Between without realising that it was also written by Tommy Murphy

after playing last year in the Kings Head theatre - where i went to see 5 Guys Chillin with GB - Strangers in Between has now transferred to a tiny theatre at the Trafalgar Studios ... the theatre is so small that you're almost staring at the audience members on the other side (if your seat is on one of the sides of the U-shaped space) ... which isn't necesarrily a bad thing !

and you're so close to the actors that you can see the spray as they spit out some of their more forecful lines ... which again, i quite liked.

the play is an unusual set-up of two 45 minute halves, with a 15 minute interval.  i usually prefer a short play to run straight through, to avoid losing the intensity ... but i think the arrangement works well for this play ... and the second half is just as intense as the first - which is quite intense.

it's a really interesting play - and definitely makes you think - especially for people who live comfortable lives in big cities, with plenty of friends.  it's good to be dragged back occasionally and realise how much we have to be thankful for - and how others aren't so lucky.

there is a brief nude scene at the end, which seemed a bit gratutious - almost like it's there to attract the older male audience?!

it's on for a couple more weeks - definitely worth checking out if you're in London.